Diane von Furstenberg’s dating advice: It’s ‘not cute to be needy’

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Diane von Furstenberg’s dating advice: It’s ‘not cute to be needy’ https://t.co/zsLpdAU9r1 pic.twitter.com/4lXOXztxnu
- Page Six (@PageSix) July 22, 2019
The fashion designer discussed how to be single

Comments

[didia1]

I completely agree. The guys that i went out with during times of feeling i was gonna die alone were not the worst, but boring and complete mismatch. I was far more willing to compromise in that mind set.

[josiefier]

I'm not chasing after anyone but there is a tall, skinny brunette with green eyes (aka my ultimate physical type) that's got me doing a power walk.

[jarellano89]

Every dude I've fallen for has had green eyes. It's not even something I seek out either.

[slaughtermatic]

all that + curly hair and i'm gooooone

[laceandskin]

I work 10 hours on my feet on third shift so I don‘t have the energy to go looking or chase anyone. They can find me.

[solsty]

Chasing is never a good idea, I agree. If it’s not 100% reciprocal, it’s not fun.

[xtinkerbellax]

Yea on one hand I don't think you should wait around for someone else to pursue you or ask you out but on the other, if the guy isn't even putting in effort in the beginning its only downhill from there lol

[oh_ilikethat]

I couldn’t agree more. I used to think it was super gendered when my mom would tell me that I need to allow myself to be chased, but the older I get the more I realize that men have never ever ever had a problem with practically catapulting themselves at women they’re interested in.If you’re a straight woman, allowing yourself to be chased is in your best interest 99% of the time.

It’s genuinely not even worth it to put yourself out there for a guy that flirts with you a lot. I did this twice and it backfired. If he’s not finding an excuse to spend time with you he’s not actually interested