I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. *hugs* ♥
It's hard for me to understand the being sensitive thing because if one of my exs wanted to take advantage of me I'd be all yay sex \o/ Umm but yeah. You're obviously a better person than me :P
As for the second girl. Maybe you should wait a while and flirt with her, try and build up something with her and see if she could possibly feel the same way as you. Judge her reactions. Also, the 'I don't want to ruin the friendship excuse'? it's not an 'excuse'. Usually means that they like you but they really don't want to lose you as a friend if it doesn't work out.
yeah im pretty sure u know one of them, not sure about the other
and thanks
she wasn't really the one who 'took advantage of me', i pretty much was the one who kissed her, but then again i spose it is strange how she only talks 2 me whenever she bcums single again....
and yeah i dunno about that, that is a good idea
and yeah, extremely weird...at least with guys...75% of the time we know what we want lol
Sometimes, these "feelings" are fake. You have to work out what you really want though, you know that...
Although, this "out of league" business is a condence thing... Look at me, I'm dating a 30 year old and we get along so well.. You can't say such a thing then, we just "clicked". I never could imagine that someone like him would actually consider dating me, little old me. You know what? Sometimes, you just have to take a chance, a huge chance and see if they like you back. Because, that's what I did.
That's the best advice I have right now. It's only natural for you wanting to "kiss" your ex. They're a broken down wall betweens yous. You let your guard down completely.
Believe it or not, most people are scared of rejection...I know that I am. But, you gotta keep in all in perspective without pain in life, there can't be any happiness...basically, it's karma. :|
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I'm sorry you're having such a hard time. *hugs* ♥
It's hard for me to understand the being sensitive thing because if one of my exs wanted to take advantage of me I'd be all yay sex \o/ Umm but yeah. You're obviously a better person than me :P
As for the second girl. Maybe you should wait a while and flirt with her, try and build up something with her and see if she could possibly feel the same way as you. Judge her reactions. Also, the 'I don't want to ruin the friendship excuse'? it's not an 'excuse'. Usually means that they like you but they really don't want to lose you as a friend if it doesn't work out.
Girls brains are weird, man. :P
♥!
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and thanks
she wasn't really the one who 'took advantage of me', i pretty much was the one who kissed her, but then again i spose it is strange how she only talks 2 me whenever she bcums single again....
and yeah i dunno about that, that is a good idea
and yeah, extremely weird...at least with guys...75% of the time we know what we want lol
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Although, this "out of league" business is a condence thing... Look at me, I'm dating a 30 year old and we get along so well.. You can't say such a thing then, we just "clicked". I never could imagine that someone like him would actually consider dating me, little old me. You know what? Sometimes, you just have to take a chance, a huge chance and see if they like you back. Because, that's what I did.
That's the best advice I have right now. It's only natural for you wanting to "kiss" your ex. They're a broken down wall betweens yous. You let your guard down completely.
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im still not sure though...even taking a risk is a big thing, im very low on self confidence and fear rejection too much so yeah...lol
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and i dont believe in karma, it's a load of bollocks if u ask me
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