Don't change who you are for someone?
Maybe its all just a crock of shit. Who's to say whats right and what is wrong after all, our parents? our friends? Ourselves? Aren't we just regurgitating something that we've heard one of these people tell us before. Change is it good? or bad? Change for the better or worse is held in the eyes of the beholder, what is good for some isnt good for all, not even most. Right. Who knows then if changing yourself makes you happy then it is worth it. Besides what if I do wait lets say that I stay the way I am and Mrs. Right comes along and sweeps me off my feet, but i had to wait 10 years for it to happen and I was unhappy those ten years, is spending ten years of your life unhappily worth it? Or should you change something maybe not end up with someone who sweeps you off your feet but someone who you can still consider Mrs. Right, because you dont know any better, and can still live with happily just not the most passionate love you could have had? Which is better? and does what is better pertain to all people, will one or the other always be best for all or is one better for some and the other for others? It could be so easy. It's like a game that you have all the cheats too, I know exactly how to win at being someone Im not and I can garuntee to get to the final level and save the princess, and watch the guy dance off to a hapily ever after ending, I know I could, that guy could be me so I guess what I'm asking is is reality that much better that it is worth it? Or is going through the motions enough to make you happy enough? False, fast, easy, content. Real, slow, painful, happiness?