"So - wedding invitations," I had said to Hibiscus, during one of our last conversations before he went overseas.
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"It seems that you're bringing this up as a way to solidify your commitment to me because you're afraid," he said.
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When I told Paladin about the exchange later, Paladin said, "That is what all weddings are about -- solidifying one's
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Whereas you are already in a committed relationship,
Whereas you and Paladin are a Primary Relationship,
Whereas you and Paladin are both truly in love with each other and ...
. Not to belittle your relationship with Hibiscus, but from what I have seen, heard, read, this relationship is still 'in lust' rather than 'in love'. This is not a bad thing. Nearly all (romantic) love starts out as lust.
Therefore > I think you should view this ceremony as 'formally adding Hibiscus to the existing marriage', rather than 'a second marriage for Nuria.'
For food, I think you should do as you always have -- make it a potluck.
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Which reminds me that I have a hand-written reply letter from her now which I need to respond to.
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