I looked at this 3 times before it hit me how....it was us. this could actually be my secret.
http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_a7jkcMVp5Vg/SfOy9natxmI/AAAAAAAAIvk/fjF2uq9Btkc/s1600-h/notgettingit.jpg it hit when someones response "And you have no idea how much I regret breaking up with you for not getting it." made me think yeah...bullshit. you've never meant those things
im bitter as shit.
but at least it doesnt hurt any more. I'll take the girl refusing to date me because she's afraid distance = pain and cheating and misery over the girl I "finally got" and didnt bother to tell me she was seeing someone else the...whole. time.