A spot of philosophy with your tea

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Over the past two years I've become much, much more serene about things not being done, about schedules not adhered to and resolutions not kept. I am trying to rid myself of the idea that there's an absolute standard for domestic efficiently and order that I have to adhere to or my mom will be displeased  nobody will like me  I'll get an F  it will Mean Something Bad about me.

I like to imagine Yoda saying, "Do.  Or do not. There is no 'should'."

Anyone want a cup of tea?  I've got oat shortbread, too.