The Trans Problem
So..a warning. I'm gonna be talking about every so sensitive topics..like..SEX and RELATIONSHIPS and GENDER IDENTITY so if you have a problem with that..I suggest you avoid the cut..
( I'm a cut to save you! )
( I'm a cut to save you! )
"It's natural people answer yes, but..it's upsetting too."
I actually have trouble grokking why they do. Other than questions of mechanics (and pregnancy), I honestly don't understand why junk OR gender matter in a relationship, especially once established. On a rational level, I know it's important to people, but I just...don't get it myself, I can't wrap my head around it. So I find myself especially frustrated hearing about peoples' partners giving them crap for it.
I get what you mean on the asexual, though, I think? I was a lot more so before losing the uterus, and I wasn't even doing anything that could lead to that being a problem. A lot of it was psychological, combined with general gender issues. You might feel less repulsed if that weren't a problem, you might not, who knows, but it's all okay, don't do anything you don't want to. Um. I mean, not...okay okay, but okay as in go ahead and feel that way.
Yeah, now I'm rambling and wording things badly.
But if you really do want to do stuff about it...I'd say it's better to try than not, because feeling uncomfortable in one's body sucks. Though I know how scary that is and ugh.
(edit because I messed up the quote)
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