A couple of the comments suggested a follow-up question to this post. Specifically: Is it harder for you to make a move (and risk rejection) in a romantic situation or in a job/professional situation? Why?
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Once upon a time I was talking with QoH about the dynamic I usually have with people I'm interested in, which is basically this: I make a move, and either the other person slaps me*, or they don't**. And it occured to me that QoH had never slapped me, which made me think that I hadn't been forward enough, or at least not optimally forward. (The ( Read more... )