I promise that I'm not going to bring this up again, but this is too important to just leave at what we did (Laren deleted her post).
you don't know what kind of relationship it is, so perhaps it's best not to meddle. If he makes the decision to break up with her because Laren seduced him and allowed him to emotionally cheat it IS half Larens fault. I'm sorry that you can't seem to understand what my opinions are but maybe after reading that you will understand more clearly.
I have understood your side of it. I've experienced relationships that turn shitty and people cheating on me more times than I can count. Moreover, my father cheated on my mom ever since I was three years old, up until they divorced when I was eighteen.
However, I think it is extremely unfair to place blame on one single person for something like that. It takes more than one person for a relationship, and if things go bad enough that one of them cheats, that's a reflection on both of them, not just one. Yes, I understand that it hurts one of them more than the
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I never blamed one person for it, in fact that's what you're doing. You're saying it's entirely the fault of the cheater and that no blame should be placed on the person who is willingly participating
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And the only reason why I thought you were taking things so personally was because of the strong imagery you used for how a person would feel if they were cheated on. I couldn't understand why you would use that sort of imagery if you hadn't experienced that sort of thing for yourself. ^___~
*hugs back* I hate leaving things on painful notes, you know? ^o^
you don't know what kind of relationship it is, so perhaps it's best not to meddle. If he makes the decision to break up with her because Laren seduced him and allowed him to emotionally cheat it IS half Larens fault. I'm sorry that you can't seem to understand what my opinions are but maybe after reading that you will understand more clearly.
I have understood your side of it. I've experienced relationships that turn shitty and people cheating on me more times than I can count. Moreover, my father cheated on my mom ever since I was three years old, up until they divorced when I was eighteen.
However, I think it is extremely unfair to place blame on one single person for something like that. It takes more than one person for a relationship, and if things go bad enough that one of them cheats, that's a reflection on both of them, not just one. Yes, I understand that it hurts one of them more than the ( ... )
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And the only reason why I thought you were taking things so personally was because of the strong imagery you used for how a person would feel if they were cheated on. I couldn't understand why you would use that sort of imagery if you hadn't experienced that sort of thing for yourself. ^___~
*hugs back* I hate leaving things on painful notes, you know? ^o^
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*bounces around* I have a feeling I'm going to like you. It's one of the reasons I wanted to make sure to end things happy. ^o^
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I'm really very spastic once you get to know me. XD
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