Change of Heart?
Well guys,
It's been a hard and long past week. I'm glad it's over. As you know, my cousin is being a bitch. She has refused to change her flowers or anything for that matter and now she is demanding that I change my wedding....funny huh? Her thing is "I only have two weeks to my wedding, you have three months! You change yours!" Yeah, I could put all my time and energy into changing everything, so it will not seem as if I copied her wedding, but I'm not. A really good friend, yes you Amber, gave me some really good advise. She told me that if I have my wedding the way that I like it and that is how I want it, then I should keep it that way, no matter what my cousin does. And Amber, as usual, is right. I shouldn't have to change up my wedding just bc my dumb cousin decided to copy mine. I'm just going to suck it up and do what I want, regardless of how her wedding turns out...if there is one. I may change a few things...but I'm going to go to her wedding...in all BLACK!! lol....and take detailed notes of how it turned out and what people did and didn't like, then I'm going to make mine even better. Do you think it would be rude to get her a book about pregnancy and one about marriage for her wedding gift? I think it would be fun!
Yep, her "man" sat down holding her hand, with her parents across from them and said....drum roll please...."I don't know if there is going to be a wedding." Then her stands up and walks out of the house! They did not see or hear from him after that. He returned to his base in FL!!! While he was on the plane, he met not one, but TWO Stewardesses (sp) and started "talking" to them. They both have his number and he theirs....now they talk just about every day! Also, there is some girl in his "class" that likes him and they have been "hanging out" a lot lately... Guess who told me all of this, yep my cousin! She knows all of this and still wants to marry him...is it bc she's pregnant??? Who knows, my personal opinion is that she is trying to "trap" him, by marrying him, and this is the only way she can do that....make him a father and husband!
On a different note, I thought I was the least liked on my mom's side of the family, but a recent trip proved otherwise....Jenny has taken my spot! Apparently, she all but cussed out my Aunt Diane and then hung up on her! According to Diane, all she was trying to do was give the girl some advise. My mother tried talking to her at Christmas, but she was the same way...yelled about it being her decision and stormed off....my Uncle Keith, the same. However, he is not so easy to defeat. He sent her a book about living your own life before getting married (I know bc he bought me the same book...wonder where it went???) and I suspect the second book was one on pregnancy bc Jenny was pretty pissed when she got the package in the mail!! Wish I coulda been there! lol Also, about a month ago my mom offered to bring her to Memphis to look for bridesmaid dresses and the such, she told ME, that, "I don't want to go shopping with your mom! She's mean and doesn't let me do what I want!" Last time we all went "shopping" we hit ONE store and then Jenny was "too tired" to shop anymore. She wanted to go home...or at least sleep in my bed which she didn't!!! Also, she called up our cousin Dana and told her that Dana was going to give her a bridal shower in two weeks! She didn't give a guest list or anything! Just the date! My cousin, Dana, said she would but she didn't have time to get anything nice and all she was going to do was go to walmart and get everything!
Well, I've ranted enough and I must leave for class shortly, so I'll ttyl!! Have a great one!
It's been a hard and long past week. I'm glad it's over. As you know, my cousin is being a bitch. She has refused to change her flowers or anything for that matter and now she is demanding that I change my wedding....funny huh? Her thing is "I only have two weeks to my wedding, you have three months! You change yours!" Yeah, I could put all my time and energy into changing everything, so it will not seem as if I copied her wedding, but I'm not. A really good friend, yes you Amber, gave me some really good advise. She told me that if I have my wedding the way that I like it and that is how I want it, then I should keep it that way, no matter what my cousin does. And Amber, as usual, is right. I shouldn't have to change up my wedding just bc my dumb cousin decided to copy mine. I'm just going to suck it up and do what I want, regardless of how her wedding turns out...if there is one. I may change a few things...but I'm going to go to her wedding...in all BLACK!! lol....and take detailed notes of how it turned out and what people did and didn't like, then I'm going to make mine even better. Do you think it would be rude to get her a book about pregnancy and one about marriage for her wedding gift? I think it would be fun!
Yep, her "man" sat down holding her hand, with her parents across from them and said....drum roll please...."I don't know if there is going to be a wedding." Then her stands up and walks out of the house! They did not see or hear from him after that. He returned to his base in FL!!! While he was on the plane, he met not one, but TWO Stewardesses (sp) and started "talking" to them. They both have his number and he theirs....now they talk just about every day! Also, there is some girl in his "class" that likes him and they have been "hanging out" a lot lately... Guess who told me all of this, yep my cousin! She knows all of this and still wants to marry him...is it bc she's pregnant??? Who knows, my personal opinion is that she is trying to "trap" him, by marrying him, and this is the only way she can do that....make him a father and husband!
On a different note, I thought I was the least liked on my mom's side of the family, but a recent trip proved otherwise....Jenny has taken my spot! Apparently, she all but cussed out my Aunt Diane and then hung up on her! According to Diane, all she was trying to do was give the girl some advise. My mother tried talking to her at Christmas, but she was the same way...yelled about it being her decision and stormed off....my Uncle Keith, the same. However, he is not so easy to defeat. He sent her a book about living your own life before getting married (I know bc he bought me the same book...wonder where it went???) and I suspect the second book was one on pregnancy bc Jenny was pretty pissed when she got the package in the mail!! Wish I coulda been there! lol Also, about a month ago my mom offered to bring her to Memphis to look for bridesmaid dresses and the such, she told ME, that, "I don't want to go shopping with your mom! She's mean and doesn't let me do what I want!" Last time we all went "shopping" we hit ONE store and then Jenny was "too tired" to shop anymore. She wanted to go home...or at least sleep in my bed which she didn't!!! Also, she called up our cousin Dana and told her that Dana was going to give her a bridal shower in two weeks! She didn't give a guest list or anything! Just the date! My cousin, Dana, said she would but she didn't have time to get anything nice and all she was going to do was go to walmart and get everything!
Well, I've ranted enough and I must leave for class shortly, so I'll ttyl!! Have a great one!