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I just dont understand it. Why is it so hard for him to tell the truth?? by him i mean Gene. Aparently, here i was thinking he was starting to be better about talking to me and moni, that he was really telling us his true feelings and starting to come out and talk.....and last night he pretty much said they were all lies. I knew he has been lieing to Jen about many a subject. One of them being he was sleeping with Moni (yes i knew about it the whole time, no it didnt cause problems, it in fact helped our own sex life) and he never mentioned this to her....or even the fact that hes been wanting to break up with her for years now but has been "to nice of a guy" to do it, which only in fact makes it worse cause she probably thinks that everything is going better by the fact that hes telling her somewhat of the truth. i think one of the things that pissed me off the most last night was when he called moni and told her that he told jen about Nikki the rest of the way (the other girl hes slept with twice, only told jen about once), and that she needed to tell jen about them sleeping together. his reasoning...."it takes two to tango".....WTF?!?!?!! he said he would tell her, no matter how many times we offered and actually came close to but told him because he wanted to tell her we didnt. *sigh* the thing that DID piss me off the most, was that Moni let him into her life so deeply and trusted him so much, that when this happened she cried harder and longer than when the fire happened. we only got a couple of hours of sleep and decided to call in sick since we ended up sleeping at 3am when we wake up at 5am.
UGH!! needless to say...we are both pretty stressed out right now :-\ with work, gene, and fucking navi (dont remember if i mentioned this or not, but this is the contractor's company that burnt our place down). it just......fuckin sucks :-\
not only this, aparently a lot of people we know are having problems. a guy we knew at work lof a friend.....she was 19.....another friends brother got hit by a car, lots of damage there, but hes stable now.....Darren, who helped us find a lawyer that hes used many times, (we work with him too) got attacked by someone. noone knows who because the police are giving up on the investigation even though another guy got beat up also, however darren is now going to need surgery because his back got fucked up....and also a great friend to me and moni is having a tough time right now because hes having to deal with losing his mother in the next few days :-\ i really wish i could help him somehow. *hugs* to you cole!!
*sigh* i guess i should prolly go now.....ttfn, ta ta for now.....
UGH!! needless to say...we are both pretty stressed out right now :-\ with work, gene, and fucking navi (dont remember if i mentioned this or not, but this is the contractor's company that burnt our place down). it just......fuckin sucks :-\
not only this, aparently a lot of people we know are having problems. a guy we knew at work lof a friend.....she was 19.....another friends brother got hit by a car, lots of damage there, but hes stable now.....Darren, who helped us find a lawyer that hes used many times, (we work with him too) got attacked by someone. noone knows who because the police are giving up on the investigation even though another guy got beat up also, however darren is now going to need surgery because his back got fucked up....and also a great friend to me and moni is having a tough time right now because hes having to deal with losing his mother in the next few days :-\ i really wish i could help him somehow. *hugs* to you cole!!
*sigh* i guess i should prolly go now.....ttfn, ta ta for now.....