WOULD YOU PISS OFF AND SHUT MY FUCKING DOOR!
Sunday I got back from ocean city.
That is a complete story of nothing but drama there. I'm not even sure where to begin with that one it was that bad.
Let's see the first part of vacation was a lot of fun but then being around my mom that much took its toll. Im not saying that it was all bad but there were parts of it that really sucked. Not to mention I had already had sun poisoning from getting burnt the week before. Not so much fun there. I did have a good time laying in the sun and just being a total beach bum but being as fair as my sister and I are we can only sit out in the sun for a few hours before we started to burn and hurt. So being aware of that I would go inside take a nap so I wouldn't be tired later on and shower and just get ready for the evening festivities.
Mom and Jim would get up at 7 in the morning go for a bike ride do whatever they were going to do and then had breakfast with us in the morning then laid on the beach until 5 every day. After they would get back they would clean up and then we would all go out to dinner. After dinner we would walk to baordwalk go shopping and whatever.
Here's where I start to get frustrated. This would happen every day. Chrissy and I would be walking along the boardwalk, we'd start walking with them never changing our walking pace in fact stopping a few times so that they would catch up walking with us considering they were walking so slow that it took them nearly five minutes to catch up if not longer. They were in their own little lovey world and it almost felt as if they were ignoring us. It began to take its toll on us and we bagan to get upset about everything.
Thursday night as we were walking along the boardwalk we went down to the amusment park that was at the end of the baordwalk and Chrissy and I saw that there was a Ripley's believe it or not places and we wanted to go in. Mom and Jim paid for us to get in but then just sat outside for the hour and a half that we were in there doing whatever it is they were doing but its cool. So we got annoyed that they didnt want to go through there with us. No big though.
As the night progressed Chrissy brought up to me that she felt like they were ignoring us all vacation. Which after thinking about it they kind of did seem to be doing that so I got pissed. I'm not one to beable to hide my emotions very well at all so my mom could tell that I was upset.
Friday at Breakfast was what really pissed me off. I was talking about work and how Jen told me I wasn't even on the schedule so I was thinking I had gotten fired or something while I was on vacation. Not the case though. Jim had expressed to me how he thought it was wrong of me to ask a fellow employee when I worked next instead of calling Fern instead. Honestly if I wanted his opinion I would have asked him for it. It came off as him trying to act like my father in which I don't tolerate because he is far from being that to me. Later on in the day Chrissy told me about how he has said similar things to her in the past involving his unwanted opinion. I had also found out that she doesn't like Jim at all. Which explains a lot involving her attitude towards him.
Later that evening we all went to dinner with Jim's nephew Ryan, who is a life guard down in Ocean City. While Jim was looking for a table mom, chrissy and I were waiting for Ryan outside and she kept bugging us about what was wrong with us and why we were being so grumpy. I told her a few times look, I really don't want to talk about while we are still on vacation because I didn't want any arguments or misunderstandings. She kept pushing so I flat out told her Chrissy and I don't like how Jim has been acting like our father and how the two of you have been ignoring us all week. She got mad defended Jim and walked away from us to go back inside with him. When Ryan got there Chrissy and I just kind of made the best of it and talked with everyone setting aside how we felt. When we got back to the hotel mom and Jim left us there and went shopping. I sat on the phone bawling to Shannon about everything that was going on with everything. When they came back I watched a little tv tried to sleep but inevitably went outside to sit on the beach and just calm down because I was that upset with everything. I talked to Michael, well cried to him, for at least an hour and a half and came back up to the room at around 3 in the morning.
Here's where all the fun comes in. We left Saturday moring to go to Jim's sister's in DC. Chrissy and I just wanted to go home so I told my mom that I had to work sunday morning so that we could just leave. The night progressively got worse and worse to the point where when we were getting ready to go to bed I called zesty and went outside to smoke before I went to bed. My mom came out and literally just reamed me out. Telling me how I had ruined her vacation because of this that and another thing. Then told me I am never going on vacation with her again. That doesn't bother me though, I'm 21 years old, I am too old to go on vacations with my family now anyways. No big loss there. While I was outside though she went upstairs and bitched Chrissy out. Seriously she is 13 years old. No need to tell someone that young, I'm done with you. You need to quit playing whatever game your playing because your pissing me off. Ridiculous. I was sitting up with my baby sister until 2.30 in the morning while she bawled her eyes out. I felt so aweful for her.
When I got back up to kent though mom found out that I didn't have to work and I just lied about it. Yea, I was wrong in the sense that I lied about having to work for my own selfish needs just because I wanted to get away from her. Whatever, I probably shouldn't have done that but at that point I justed wanted to get away. So whatever. She called me and left me the nastiest voicemail telling me how she was done with me and didn't want to hear from me or anything like that. The next day, I get a bitchy email saying how it is pathetic how I didn't enjoy my vacation because I was too busy text fighting with michael the entire time. Clarification. Michael and I didn't fight at all while I was on vacation. Not once. So yea... it's pathetic.
I am very angry at how she is treating Chrissy though. That kills me the most. I don't care what rude things that she has to say to me but I care about what she is saying to my sister and how she is treating my sister. And the sad thing is that mom fails to recognize that the whole issue with why everything played out the way it did was because of the way she was acting towards us while there. She just won't hear it any other way at all, which is sad.
Aside from all the drama there, my 21st birthday is tomorrow. YAY...I can legally drink, buy cigarettes, play the lottery, buy porn and vote. But I still can't rent a damn car. lolol.It makes me laugh a little bit. I was planning on going out with a bunch of friends back home but since my birthday is in the middle of the week, it kind of doesn't really work out. So I am going to go to the bars for like an hour get a few free shots go to the gas station buy a 12 pack off bud light or MGD and drink with a small group of people and watch movies or play drinking games. Nothing too exciting but fun none the less.
As for everything else, it's good. I have a job interview today, so maybe there will be no more pizzs hut soon enough if I get it. And well school is going to be starting back up in a few months so kind of looking forward to getting back into the swing of things. And I moved in with michael, so I am taking over his space and it makes me giggle. lolol. Especially since he has never lived with someone he is dating. :) Yay first for him....
That is a complete story of nothing but drama there. I'm not even sure where to begin with that one it was that bad.
Let's see the first part of vacation was a lot of fun but then being around my mom that much took its toll. Im not saying that it was all bad but there were parts of it that really sucked. Not to mention I had already had sun poisoning from getting burnt the week before. Not so much fun there. I did have a good time laying in the sun and just being a total beach bum but being as fair as my sister and I are we can only sit out in the sun for a few hours before we started to burn and hurt. So being aware of that I would go inside take a nap so I wouldn't be tired later on and shower and just get ready for the evening festivities.
Mom and Jim would get up at 7 in the morning go for a bike ride do whatever they were going to do and then had breakfast with us in the morning then laid on the beach until 5 every day. After they would get back they would clean up and then we would all go out to dinner. After dinner we would walk to baordwalk go shopping and whatever.
Here's where I start to get frustrated. This would happen every day. Chrissy and I would be walking along the boardwalk, we'd start walking with them never changing our walking pace in fact stopping a few times so that they would catch up walking with us considering they were walking so slow that it took them nearly five minutes to catch up if not longer. They were in their own little lovey world and it almost felt as if they were ignoring us. It began to take its toll on us and we bagan to get upset about everything.
Thursday night as we were walking along the boardwalk we went down to the amusment park that was at the end of the baordwalk and Chrissy and I saw that there was a Ripley's believe it or not places and we wanted to go in. Mom and Jim paid for us to get in but then just sat outside for the hour and a half that we were in there doing whatever it is they were doing but its cool. So we got annoyed that they didnt want to go through there with us. No big though.
As the night progressed Chrissy brought up to me that she felt like they were ignoring us all vacation. Which after thinking about it they kind of did seem to be doing that so I got pissed. I'm not one to beable to hide my emotions very well at all so my mom could tell that I was upset.
Friday at Breakfast was what really pissed me off. I was talking about work and how Jen told me I wasn't even on the schedule so I was thinking I had gotten fired or something while I was on vacation. Not the case though. Jim had expressed to me how he thought it was wrong of me to ask a fellow employee when I worked next instead of calling Fern instead. Honestly if I wanted his opinion I would have asked him for it. It came off as him trying to act like my father in which I don't tolerate because he is far from being that to me. Later on in the day Chrissy told me about how he has said similar things to her in the past involving his unwanted opinion. I had also found out that she doesn't like Jim at all. Which explains a lot involving her attitude towards him.
Later that evening we all went to dinner with Jim's nephew Ryan, who is a life guard down in Ocean City. While Jim was looking for a table mom, chrissy and I were waiting for Ryan outside and she kept bugging us about what was wrong with us and why we were being so grumpy. I told her a few times look, I really don't want to talk about while we are still on vacation because I didn't want any arguments or misunderstandings. She kept pushing so I flat out told her Chrissy and I don't like how Jim has been acting like our father and how the two of you have been ignoring us all week. She got mad defended Jim and walked away from us to go back inside with him. When Ryan got there Chrissy and I just kind of made the best of it and talked with everyone setting aside how we felt. When we got back to the hotel mom and Jim left us there and went shopping. I sat on the phone bawling to Shannon about everything that was going on with everything. When they came back I watched a little tv tried to sleep but inevitably went outside to sit on the beach and just calm down because I was that upset with everything. I talked to Michael, well cried to him, for at least an hour and a half and came back up to the room at around 3 in the morning.
Here's where all the fun comes in. We left Saturday moring to go to Jim's sister's in DC. Chrissy and I just wanted to go home so I told my mom that I had to work sunday morning so that we could just leave. The night progressively got worse and worse to the point where when we were getting ready to go to bed I called zesty and went outside to smoke before I went to bed. My mom came out and literally just reamed me out. Telling me how I had ruined her vacation because of this that and another thing. Then told me I am never going on vacation with her again. That doesn't bother me though, I'm 21 years old, I am too old to go on vacations with my family now anyways. No big loss there. While I was outside though she went upstairs and bitched Chrissy out. Seriously she is 13 years old. No need to tell someone that young, I'm done with you. You need to quit playing whatever game your playing because your pissing me off. Ridiculous. I was sitting up with my baby sister until 2.30 in the morning while she bawled her eyes out. I felt so aweful for her.
When I got back up to kent though mom found out that I didn't have to work and I just lied about it. Yea, I was wrong in the sense that I lied about having to work for my own selfish needs just because I wanted to get away from her. Whatever, I probably shouldn't have done that but at that point I justed wanted to get away. So whatever. She called me and left me the nastiest voicemail telling me how she was done with me and didn't want to hear from me or anything like that. The next day, I get a bitchy email saying how it is pathetic how I didn't enjoy my vacation because I was too busy text fighting with michael the entire time. Clarification. Michael and I didn't fight at all while I was on vacation. Not once. So yea... it's pathetic.
I am very angry at how she is treating Chrissy though. That kills me the most. I don't care what rude things that she has to say to me but I care about what she is saying to my sister and how she is treating my sister. And the sad thing is that mom fails to recognize that the whole issue with why everything played out the way it did was because of the way she was acting towards us while there. She just won't hear it any other way at all, which is sad.
Aside from all the drama there, my 21st birthday is tomorrow. YAY...I can legally drink, buy cigarettes, play the lottery, buy porn and vote. But I still can't rent a damn car. lolol.It makes me laugh a little bit. I was planning on going out with a bunch of friends back home but since my birthday is in the middle of the week, it kind of doesn't really work out. So I am going to go to the bars for like an hour get a few free shots go to the gas station buy a 12 pack off bud light or MGD and drink with a small group of people and watch movies or play drinking games. Nothing too exciting but fun none the less.
As for everything else, it's good. I have a job interview today, so maybe there will be no more pizzs hut soon enough if I get it. And well school is going to be starting back up in a few months so kind of looking forward to getting back into the swing of things. And I moved in with michael, so I am taking over his space and it makes me giggle. lolol. Especially since he has never lived with someone he is dating. :) Yay first for him....