What is a Kiss?
What’s a Kiss…
This is something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately. Now that I’ve started dating it seems to be important to find out where I stand on some touching subjects…yes that was a pun…
Kisses can be done, given and received in a number of different ways:
Kisses…
1) Blown kisses…usually to say farewell to someone you have some feelings for if it be friendship, admiration, love of a family member or a lover.
2) Kisses on the cheek…can be a cultural thing, to show friendship, used as a band aid until a real kiss can be implemented, to say good-bye or hello to someone you have some feelings for some reason…
3) Peck on the mouth…can be used to say hello or good-bye to a lover or family member or close friend. It could be used to show sexual interest in another at the end of a date.
4) Butterfly kisses…this is when eyelashes do the kissing. This is CUTE! This type of kissing is usually seen being done between couples that are so cute that they make you sick or between parents and small children…I’ve been in both situations…
5)Eskimo kisses. These kisses are done by the nose. This can be done between friends, lovers or family members. Not recommended if you have a cold…LOL…
6) Open mouthed kiss…YUM! Sometimes :P This is the kiss I would like to get some clarification mainly on…
My explanation of the perfect open mouthed kiss…
This kiss should have a lot of built up sexual tension behind it. It should be intense and felt by both before it even occurs. There should be strong eye contact before it with words not needed to be spoken. This kiss should be felt throughout the entire body. Shivers through the fingertips should happen. The word “wow” should be uttered fairly silently afterwards. Body’s should also be included in this passionate act.
Example…
Two people stand looking into each others eyes. One bites their lip gently and looks down flirtingly. Then looks straight back into their partners eyes. One steps forward and slowly…gently places a hand on the others cheek…the other nuzzles their cheek in the embrace closing their eyes for a second…when their eyes open the two slowly stare again in each others eyes for a moment then lips connect. The second hand of the person with the hand on the cheek moves up fairly slowly and rests meets the first on the back of the neck of their partner. The partner’s arms wrap around the small of the back of the other. At first it is a closed mouth kiss that lasts a little longer than a peck…lips begin to slowly open slightly…a small amount of tongue reaches into the other’s mouth caressing the other’s tongue…this action goes back and forth for as long as each feel comfortable doing it. The arms around the back are caressing the back and the hands behind the neck are running their fingers through the other’s hair. When disconnecting the glare into each other’s eyes is important as it is a way of speaking without words. It’s the language of lovers…a dialect I can’t seem to recall very well unfortunately but I do have faith that if placed in this type of situation again…it would come back to me or be new and exciting...
Wow…can you tell I haven’t had any in a while…LOL
I’m also on a bus for 5 hours without much else to do…
This is something I’ve been thinking a lot about lately. Now that I’ve started dating it seems to be important to find out where I stand on some touching subjects…yes that was a pun…
Kisses can be done, given and received in a number of different ways:
Kisses…
1) Blown kisses…usually to say farewell to someone you have some feelings for if it be friendship, admiration, love of a family member or a lover.
2) Kisses on the cheek…can be a cultural thing, to show friendship, used as a band aid until a real kiss can be implemented, to say good-bye or hello to someone you have some feelings for some reason…
3) Peck on the mouth…can be used to say hello or good-bye to a lover or family member or close friend. It could be used to show sexual interest in another at the end of a date.
4) Butterfly kisses…this is when eyelashes do the kissing. This is CUTE! This type of kissing is usually seen being done between couples that are so cute that they make you sick or between parents and small children…I’ve been in both situations…
5)Eskimo kisses. These kisses are done by the nose. This can be done between friends, lovers or family members. Not recommended if you have a cold…LOL…
6) Open mouthed kiss…YUM! Sometimes :P This is the kiss I would like to get some clarification mainly on…
My explanation of the perfect open mouthed kiss…
This kiss should have a lot of built up sexual tension behind it. It should be intense and felt by both before it even occurs. There should be strong eye contact before it with words not needed to be spoken. This kiss should be felt throughout the entire body. Shivers through the fingertips should happen. The word “wow” should be uttered fairly silently afterwards. Body’s should also be included in this passionate act.
Example…
Two people stand looking into each others eyes. One bites their lip gently and looks down flirtingly. Then looks straight back into their partners eyes. One steps forward and slowly…gently places a hand on the others cheek…the other nuzzles their cheek in the embrace closing their eyes for a second…when their eyes open the two slowly stare again in each others eyes for a moment then lips connect. The second hand of the person with the hand on the cheek moves up fairly slowly and rests meets the first on the back of the neck of their partner. The partner’s arms wrap around the small of the back of the other. At first it is a closed mouth kiss that lasts a little longer than a peck…lips begin to slowly open slightly…a small amount of tongue reaches into the other’s mouth caressing the other’s tongue…this action goes back and forth for as long as each feel comfortable doing it. The arms around the back are caressing the back and the hands behind the neck are running their fingers through the other’s hair. When disconnecting the glare into each other’s eyes is important as it is a way of speaking without words. It’s the language of lovers…a dialect I can’t seem to recall very well unfortunately but I do have faith that if placed in this type of situation again…it would come back to me or be new and exciting...
Wow…can you tell I haven’t had any in a while…LOL
I’m also on a bus for 5 hours without much else to do…