Come On, Get Happy
Hey Guys;
A lot of you seem down recently, and that's not on.
Whether we get the chance to speak a lot, or no, for anyone whose in the midst of feeling blue, just a quick message;
--Don't listen to what other people have to say about YOU. You know you better than anyone else, right? And while opinions and criticisms can be helpful, that's all they can be. Especially with all the Anon stuff going on recently, from that silly RP-thing, to the usual 4chan BS. Opinions that pose a critique can be helpful; but no opinion should ever make you feel poorly about yourself, your talents, what you like, and what you can do. We all have different tastes, different ideas; disagreeing doesn't automatically make one party wrong.
We're all good at some things, and we're all improving, too.
And Look. If someone really has nothing better to do than to rag on you facelessly? That's not a very kind, nor a wise person. Anyone who gets a high off of making someone else feel poorly, while being a coward to boot? Their opinions aren't ever worth it. Never.
Work hard. Make yourself happy. Be proud of YOU. Stop putting yourself down, and if other people are putting you down, too? Then they have a lot of work left to do on themselves before they have the right to point fingers in anyone else's directions.
Even if it's your family, your friends. Even if it's someone you know, love, or trust. If someone is making you feel badly about yourself, please just look at all that you've accomplished, all that you do just by getting up every day, going to work or school, being a friend, trying your best-- and find something to be proud of. All of you have done so much, -do- so much, and I know this just by having the honour of reading about snippets of your lives.
I sorely hope that no one I know acts in such a hurtful way, either. Or has to hide in order to say something rude, or cannot pose something that's difficult to hear in a manner that isn't cruel. That's honestly just sad, okay? Even if you have a problem with someone... there are much more mature ways of handling it, really. Please, even if you dislike someone; think about how comments like that make you feel, first.
Something good can be found in everyone. Something bad, too, I'm sure.
Harping on the good is way more constructive than misconstruing whatever flaws people have. Flaws are what make you YOU, and they're important, too, hey.
Guys. Feel better, all right? ♥
And I'm around to talk to if ANYONE needs it, regardless of how often we tend to speak. Even if we haven't had a conversation in years. (Haha, orz, I can't think of anyone like that, but if you're out there. ;;;)
I_steal_cookies@hotmail.com = Messenger [MSN]
MaddieJS = Messenger [Skype]
914-299-2024 = Phone
maddie.salters@gmail.com = Email
Cheer up; there's a lot to laugh about. :D
http://www.utilitarianism.com/happy-pig.jpg
PS: Julieeeeeee I'm exciteeeeeeed about tonight, and have it done already. Ufufu. ♥ This is awesome, ILU.
A lot of you seem down recently, and that's not on.
Whether we get the chance to speak a lot, or no, for anyone whose in the midst of feeling blue, just a quick message;
--Don't listen to what other people have to say about YOU. You know you better than anyone else, right? And while opinions and criticisms can be helpful, that's all they can be. Especially with all the Anon stuff going on recently, from that silly RP-thing, to the usual 4chan BS. Opinions that pose a critique can be helpful; but no opinion should ever make you feel poorly about yourself, your talents, what you like, and what you can do. We all have different tastes, different ideas; disagreeing doesn't automatically make one party wrong.
We're all good at some things, and we're all improving, too.
And Look. If someone really has nothing better to do than to rag on you facelessly? That's not a very kind, nor a wise person. Anyone who gets a high off of making someone else feel poorly, while being a coward to boot? Their opinions aren't ever worth it. Never.
Work hard. Make yourself happy. Be proud of YOU. Stop putting yourself down, and if other people are putting you down, too? Then they have a lot of work left to do on themselves before they have the right to point fingers in anyone else's directions.
Even if it's your family, your friends. Even if it's someone you know, love, or trust. If someone is making you feel badly about yourself, please just look at all that you've accomplished, all that you do just by getting up every day, going to work or school, being a friend, trying your best-- and find something to be proud of. All of you have done so much, -do- so much, and I know this just by having the honour of reading about snippets of your lives.
I sorely hope that no one I know acts in such a hurtful way, either. Or has to hide in order to say something rude, or cannot pose something that's difficult to hear in a manner that isn't cruel. That's honestly just sad, okay? Even if you have a problem with someone... there are much more mature ways of handling it, really. Please, even if you dislike someone; think about how comments like that make you feel, first.
Something good can be found in everyone. Something bad, too, I'm sure.
Harping on the good is way more constructive than misconstruing whatever flaws people have. Flaws are what make you YOU, and they're important, too, hey.
Guys. Feel better, all right? ♥
And I'm around to talk to if ANYONE needs it, regardless of how often we tend to speak. Even if we haven't had a conversation in years. (Haha, orz, I can't think of anyone like that, but if you're out there. ;;;)
I_steal_cookies@hotmail.com = Messenger [MSN]
MaddieJS = Messenger [Skype]
914-299-2024 = Phone
maddie.salters@gmail.com = Email
Cheer up; there's a lot to laugh about. :D
http://www.utilitarianism.com/happy-pig.jpg
PS: Julieeeeeee I'm exciteeeeeeed about tonight, and have it done already. Ufufu. ♥ This is awesome, ILU.