Cruel Intentions
I must say, I was expecting new surprises from this New Year, but not like this. I don't know if it is me, but my life has all of a sudden become some kind of comedy/romance movie, lol. Anyway, you might recall from my last entry that I once began to like this girl by the name of Serena and as I was about to kiss her, but my friend Justin
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We can all tell when another guy is attractive Miguel, but it doesn't mean we have to fancy them :-)
Anyway, is there any chance that these could be rumors? Over here in high school, if a girl does something like have sex with one guy it spreads around that she's a slut when having sex with one guy hardly makes her a slut does it? If they don't have sex then they're called fridgid, so they have this immense pressure on them all the time.
Of course, I'm not saying this girl is like that. If she's the one who did that thing in the toliet then you're right to stay the hell away from her. I know it sounds harsh Miguel but she was probably just playing you along for another notch on the bedpost.
As for your friend Justin. Well, I found out that a guy I'd known for years (although he was more my brother's friend) was gay. I was shocked at first because he had always been a girl magnet, but then again gay guy's tend to have that effect on women. In a sense they want what they can't have because gay guys actually listen to women and care about how they feel, unlike most straight men. Anyway, in short, it didn't change a thing. In fact, I like him even more now. I've met his boyfriend and everything and to be honest it's his choice. Most people are born with homosexuality, they just cover it up through fear. They can't help being who they are.
'I'm not God; I have no right to judge you because you like guys. But don't think for a second you can hit on me, because I will not hesitate to block you.'
I really don't think that was the best thing to say. I'd never say that to a gay friend because it simply makes it look like you're against gays. Further more, he's unlikely to hit on you because he knows you're straight. If your going to be friends with him, you have to accept that he might come out with comments about how attractive you are. There's really no need to feel disgusted by it.
Anyway, hang in there.
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Ok, perhaps my comment I made to him was a tad harsh, but you might not think that if I decided to post the rest of the conversation. Regardless, I did apologize to him for what I said. It was just the timing of everything. He really chose a bad time to tell me that. That's like I'm grieving over the death of a friend, then another friend asks me for 5 bucks. I could have taken Justin's news a whole lot better if he told me when I wasn't upset. In fact, I was hanging out with him today, and everything seemed to be back to normal.
I just want everybody to understand that I have no hatred for gays what so ever. As I mentioned before, I have a few friends who are gay and one of my best friends is gay. All I am stressing is that I would never get involved in gay sex, even if one of my friends was sexually confused and asked me to do something with him, I just couldn't. Perhaps if it was a life and death situation, then fine...other then that, I'm not. I'm not saying my friends want me to, just laying that on the table and I mean no disrespect to anybody.
I am hanging in there, in fact on Thursday I am going fishing for the whole day, alone. I just have plenty of thinking to do.
Nice hearing from you, by the way. :)
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