You want my help?!?!?!
People would always tell me to "expect the unexpected," something I strongly believed in. To bad I let my guard down yesterday. One of the most popular guys back from my high school asked me for advice to get a girl's heart. This was a huge surprise to me, I mean he was capable of getting almost any girl he wished. He’s a real cool guy, but the fact that he turned to me was really surprising. As some of you might know, I am very good at giving advice, but I just can't get over the fact the he would turn too little old me lol. Anyway, he says he "loves" two girls and they love him back. But he feels as though one of the girls is a bit immature, and won't tell him if he is doing something wrong. Judging from what he told me about the second girl, she sounds like the better choice.
But he is afraid to tell the first girl (the immature one) that he has stronger feelings for the second girl because he knows that will make her cry. Now what I'm about to tell you is my advice to him, and I will let you be the judge of weather it was good advice, or bad. So I told him to first of all, have a few day emotion check, make sure you know what your getting yourself into and what not, and feel confident about it. Then I recommended that he tell the emotional girl as soon as possible that he has stronger feeling for the second girl. I strongly believe that is the best choice, I mean imagine if he kept this inside, and kept pretending he liked her, and she found out that he was lying...that would crush her. If he told her the truth right now, yes she might cry, but at least he was honest. I mean, she can't hate the guy for being honest, that just kind of weirs you know. He thanked me over and over, and he says "he trusts me" and the advice I gave him. I hope everything will work out for him...ehh I'm sure it will. So what do you think...was that good advice?
But he is afraid to tell the first girl (the immature one) that he has stronger feelings for the second girl because he knows that will make her cry. Now what I'm about to tell you is my advice to him, and I will let you be the judge of weather it was good advice, or bad. So I told him to first of all, have a few day emotion check, make sure you know what your getting yourself into and what not, and feel confident about it. Then I recommended that he tell the emotional girl as soon as possible that he has stronger feeling for the second girl. I strongly believe that is the best choice, I mean imagine if he kept this inside, and kept pretending he liked her, and she found out that he was lying...that would crush her. If he told her the truth right now, yes she might cry, but at least he was honest. I mean, she can't hate the guy for being honest, that just kind of weirs you know. He thanked me over and over, and he says "he trusts me" and the advice I gave him. I hope everything will work out for him...ehh I'm sure it will. So what do you think...was that good advice?