Her boyfriend smacked her hard!!!!

[ndrest0230]

Last night I went out had a few drinks but not really buzzing or drunk. Me and a buddy went downtown and had to park under I-4. As we were walking on Central we noticed a couple that seemed to be in an intence conversation. It happened pretty quick, but the girl took a swing at the dude...he blocked and smacked her hard. She was stunned and

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[a_dork]

that's an interesting situation to be in. Ive never been hit by a boyfriend or man. they all have been respective to me and Ive never seen anyone hit a girl before. boys like that (who hits girls) is someone who actually has no feelings. by that I mean no respect or compassion for girls, for they are not as strong as men are. sure, I have to admit that my taste in boys have not been great (most of them were jerks) the truth is, we dont really know what we are getting ourselves in when we meet a "bad boy". its a exciting concept and we all need adventure. over time our tastes will either change or stay the same, depending on the experience we have with those kind of boys. sometimes we deny what is true. why we do this, we still dont understand either.

about you stepping in, I think its best to leave it alone, until the girl asks for help. maybe it was the first time it has ever happened to the girl and maybe it'll be the last, maybe it wont be. the point is, if my boyfriend did this to me for the first time and someone else stepped in and beat my boyfriend to pulp, I would want to press charges against the person who felt was helping me. I would have wanted to work this out between the boyfriend and I without anyone stepping in. if it wasnt the first time that he had hit me, I would ask for help. I would stand there and laugh at anyone who beats him to pulp. I mean, if he beats me, he deserves it.

does this answer ur questions? :)

[ndrest0230]

I really appreciate you responding and being so open. I also appreciate your honesty. Your responce does shed some light. So far everyone that I have spoken too has said I have done the right thing by staying out.

I am not an asshole normally, and especially not to women, so it is hard for me to understand the allure women find in assholes. The adventure thing I guess is a possible reason. But mystery and adventure doesn't last. what ever happened to finding that one person to love forever? I guess I'm old school...I don't want to date around and pretend to be a jerk to get a girl.

I know that you said that you have never been hit and that is good but what do you think he could say to you to make things right if you were ever hit?

Thanks for helping me try to make sence of this.

[a_dork]

oh, of course we all want to find that special someone to love forever. the problem is, most of us dont know the one we're dating are jerks until later in the relationship. most of them try to appear as the nice guy then shed their true personality later. like I said, we deny what is true.

what do you think he could say to you to make things right if you were ever hit?
well, like you said, both of the couple had alcohol in their system, so if it was the first time, we would write it off to alcohol. if it happens again then there's no excuse.