Here goes my evil alter ego

[trenerka_chan]

Time: Neutral

Question for: Everyone, who has some advice for me

Question:

Comments

[kenichi_bokushi]

I think the main problem is your approach. Generally, threatening someone with a sharp object will not attract them towards you. Also, you cannot make someone fall in love with you; they have to by their own volition. Try getting to know her in ways that don't imply that you're going to kill her.

Though, if your aim is to make her fall IN you, it might be a bit painful and will probably kill you in the process, but you may need to cut yourself open and then push her into you. Just a warning, though: as effective as this may be, it has a high likelihood of being the last thing you will ever do.

[trenerka_chan]

Threatening? No, that would be too dangerous. I attacked her from behind many times. Besides, when it comes to threatening I learned from her, you know, and I must say that it's totally pointless in this case.

English is my second language, so I didn't really catch what you mean (damn you phrasal verbs), but just in case I changed it a bit so everyone understands what I mean.

[kenichi_bokushi]

That isn't exactly any better than threatening her.

[trenerka_chan]

It is. This way I won't get killed in the process. The problem isn't that she doesn't like me. It's just she likes that peacful idiot more than me and I must change that.

[oriental_paris]

Sharp objects bring the wrong kind of attention to you. Some relationships are not meant to be... sometimes, it's better to let things be.

[trenerka_chan]

ANY kind of attention from her is fine with me. I'm not going to give up, if that's what you're suggesting. I love her and all the rest can go to hell! I don't care about anyone except her!

[oriental_paris]

Not if you want her to fall in love with you. Well~ a real, meaningful relationship develops without fakery involved. If she doesn't love you the way you are, then that would force you to change into someone that she can love, wouldn't it? Not that change is necessarily a bad thing...

The question is: are you willing to change no matter what for this girl?

[trenerka_chan]

She loves to use sharp objects. If she was sincer with me, I would be sincer with her. She denies her feelings for me, so I have no obligatory to be nicer for her.

And changing for her, would mean becoming more like that idot and I refuse to do so.

[eduard_estonia]

A girl like that has no time to mess around with games, maybe you should be d-direct and honest.

[trenerka_chan]

We are both direct and honest but only when it comes to our negative feelings.

[eduard_estonia]

Perhaps its time you express your better feelings towards her?

[trenerka_chan]

*taken aback, by the suggestion*

It's... it's not going to work. She likes someone more than me and if I started to act nice towards her she might stop liking me...

[blackwingedme]

Non-nation, but had to comment >.<

Well, if she doesn't like you like that, then become friends with her first. No girl wants to date some guy who acts like an ass to her. Or have a group hangout and get to know each other better like that.

How long have you two known each other?

[trenerka_chan]

It's fine. I don't care who helps me.

She likes me, she just doesn't admit it loud. And we are friends - I spend most of my time with her. Also seeing her attitude towards others I probably can't get more "friendly" with her.

Hmmm... I meet her, when I finally escaped that hellish confinement. It was in May. So it's eight months.

And I think I should inform you I'm no "guy". I'm girl.

[blackwingedme]

Hmm... Maybe she's insecure about it?

Well, eight months, though it does seem to be a long time with someone you like, is actually not that long. There's a chance it's just a crush. Wait it out for a year, and if you still do like her, than try harder. During that time, just hang out more. Do something that's comfortable with her. You don't need to change for someone else.

[trenerka_chan]

Insecure about what?

I exist for eight months so in fact I love her all my life. And it's more than a crush. I never felt anything like that for anyone and at first it really freaked me out...

And the biggest problem is that she is more interested in that idiot, so I don't have time to lose. Also "things comfortable with her" can be counted on fingers of one hand. It is: sleeping, ignoring and hanging with Trenerka. She is type of person, who finds life quite uncomfortable and mostly annoying.

[iamnotadamnelf]

Have you considered abduction?

[trenerka_chan]

She's more capable of doing such a thing than I am, also it would be too dangerous (not to meantion that somehow... wrong - not ethically of course, but... you simply don't abduct people as her!)

[egosumroma]

. . .a little abduction, a little human sacrifice. . .

Well, I can see why you havn't had a date in centuries.