Well, if she doesn't like you like that, then become friends with her first. No girl wants to date some guy who acts like an ass to her. Or have a group hangout and get to know each other better like that.
She likes me, she just doesn't admit it loud. And we are friends - I spend most of my time with her. Also seeing her attitude towards others I probably can't get more "friendly" with her.
Hmmm... I meet her, when I finally escaped that hellish confinement. It was in May. So it's eight months.
And I think I should inform you I'm no "guy". I'm girl.
Well, eight months, though it does seem to be a long time with someone you like, is actually not that long. There's a chance it's just a crush. Wait it out for a year, and if you still do like her, than try harder. During that time, just hang out more. Do something that's comfortable with her. You don't need to change for someone else.
I exist for eight months so in fact I love her all my life. And it's more than a crush. I never felt anything like that for anyone and at first it really freaked me out...
And the biggest problem is that she is more interested in that idiot, so I don't have time to lose. Also "things comfortable with her" can be counted on fingers of one hand. It is: sleeping, ignoring and hanging with Trenerka. She is type of person, who finds life quite uncomfortable and mostly annoying.
Well, the 'strong and cynical' tomboy-ish type of girls usually don't like showing the feminine side of them. (I don't know about the girl you like, but the girls like that I know think of showing "love" feelings as a weakness). Or maybe she's insecure about a same sex relationship? Where I live, people usually look down upon it. As if I care about those people...
Hmm... So she's the type of girl who gets annoyed at a lot of people and things? I know a few people like that. Well then you could always start off with getting to know/like each other better (or at least, getting her to like you better). Try to get her to open up to you. Trust her and she'll learn to trust you. Love is a two-way street, if you know what I mean. It's gotta come from both people.
I don't know much about the girl you like, so I'm afraid I can help you only so much. But I'll try to help out as much as I can if you want!
It's not like she doesn't show femine side - she simply doesn't have it. The only thing that makes her a girl is her gender and the fact that she still adreses herself as "she". Also she already has some feelings for that idiot and luckily some for me too, so I think she already got through the stage of "love is a weakness"... but now that I think of it you may have lots of right with it. Maybe she somehow stopped in the middle of process and it's potential in her.
I honestly can't see her having problem with sex with anybody (not that she would want to do it with everyone... but she's capable of it).
We already know each other quite well. The problem is she hates opening up to people, she avoids it as much as she can, even to that idiot. And I don't think I trust anyone as much as I trust her... maybe except for Aunt Dark, but EVERYONE trusts her.
Well, if she doesn't like you like that, then become friends with her first. No girl wants to date some guy who acts like an ass to her. Or have a group hangout and get to know each other better like that.
How long have you two known each other?
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She likes me, she just doesn't admit it loud. And we are friends - I spend most of my time with her. Also seeing her attitude towards others I probably can't get more "friendly" with her.
Hmmm... I meet her, when I finally escaped that hellish confinement. It was in May. So it's eight months.
And I think I should inform you I'm no "guy". I'm girl.
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Well, eight months, though it does seem to be a long time with someone you like, is actually not that long. There's a chance it's just a crush. Wait it out for a year, and if you still do like her, than try harder. During that time, just hang out more. Do something that's comfortable with her. You don't need to change for someone else.
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I exist for eight months so in fact I love her all my life. And it's more than a crush. I never felt anything like that for anyone and at first it really freaked me out...
And the biggest problem is that she is more interested in that idiot, so I don't have time to lose. Also "things comfortable with her" can be counted on fingers of one hand. It is: sleeping, ignoring and hanging with Trenerka. She is type of person, who finds life quite uncomfortable and mostly annoying.
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Hmm... So she's the type of girl who gets annoyed at a lot of people and things? I know a few people like that. Well then you could always start off with getting to know/like each other better (or at least, getting her to like you better). Try to get her to open up to you. Trust her and she'll learn to trust you. Love is a two-way street, if you know what I mean. It's gotta come from both people.
I don't know much about the girl you like, so I'm afraid I can help you only so much. But I'll try to help out as much as I can if you want!
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I honestly can't see her having problem with sex with anybody (not that she would want to do it with everyone... but she's capable of it).
We already know each other quite well. The problem is she hates opening up to people, she avoids it as much as she can, even to that idiot. And I don't think I trust anyone as much as I trust her... maybe except for Aunt Dark, but EVERYONE trusts her.
Thanks, maybe you will be able to get some idea.
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