This is just tremendously depressing to me. And
this. I don't understand why people think bullying is just part of life. Everyone experiences being pushed around, but the way we as a culture just accept this kind of thing to the point that children are committing suicide because of it . . . that's sick.
It's sick the way that the victims are
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It's no different than believing the 50's were an idealized world where homosexuality didn't exist, every marriage was happy, every spouse was faithful, every 'colored person' knew their place, every woman found bliss in the kitchen and every household in the United States was a good Christian one.
Shit happens. Shit has always happened. The only thing that's changed is that it's harder to look around without seeing it happen. Better news, the Internet- people have to try harder to be ignorant, and less people are willing to do so. Which isn't to say anyone's without their own self-inflicted illusions, but it is a trend I encourage to continue. Ignoring it never makes it go away. It just makes people suffer in silence.
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Dale dropped out of school in 9th grade, and Brandon and I actually became friends due to the fact that I knew who Metallica was and liked their music. I WIN!
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When five basketball players jumped him outside of play rehearsal, and he put two of them in the hospital before the rest bore him down, the coach searched him out to inform him that if he "had a problem with my players, you come see me." To which my husband replied, "Maybe you should teach them not to jump people five to one."
It never stopped. There was no "earning of respect," even when he kicked their asses repeatedly. Just more and more calls of "faggot" and "pussy."
And, he was usually the one who got suspended. Eventually, his folks put him in the Alternative School, which at the time was essentially a GED program. At least that way the assholes from the regular high school had to work at it to find him.
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Fairness is something we instinctively understand. It's part of our DNA. It's something that's understood by other animals. There's always those individuals who are willing to stand up and say, "What you're doing is not fair, and I intend to do something about it." We need to be those individuals. Even if we're scared too.
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If it's just words, then ignore. If it's physical... carte blanche and they'll stand behind me all the way, no matter what happens.
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