why can't people be more honest with what they really think and mean? issit just singaporeans or i'm so unfortunate to meet these people
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Well firstly, I'm sorry that you were disappointed and that he wasn't more honest with you, but i also feel you put too much hope into it too early. After all, how long have you known this guy? Even if he misled you, the short duration that you two have started this suggests that you put too many eggs into your basket right off.
Take it easy, dating is supposed to be casual and fun, not serious and "die die must seal the deal" one. I would say if he pulled this after going out for about 5-6 months, that's grounds for a broken heart. but anything less than that is a little melodramatic. Keep it light and enjoy the company of someone without having some heavy expectation. You said it yourself - it's about creating the "perfect" relationship, right? Similarly, it's not about expecting the perfect date that blossoms into a relationship. It's about enjoying the moment and being pleasantly surprised if something actually happens (and by that, i mean something that happens within a realistic timeframe, not hearing "you're the one" within 1-2 months!) Not everyone is Meg Ryan and Tom hanks hor! :p
Honestly, if someone i go out with on a few dates starts getting too serious, i would be very cautious! :D
thx bros. maybe i'm kinda drained by all this dates i have for this past few weeks. i have learnt new things about myself through this particular incident.
Take it easy, dating is supposed to be casual and fun, not serious and "die die must seal the deal" one. I would say if he pulled this after going out for about 5-6 months, that's grounds for a broken heart. but anything less than that is a little melodramatic. Keep it light and enjoy the company of someone without having some heavy expectation. You said it yourself - it's about creating the "perfect" relationship, right? Similarly, it's not about expecting the perfect date that blossoms into a relationship. It's about enjoying the moment and being pleasantly surprised if something actually happens (and by that, i mean something that happens within a realistic timeframe, not hearing "you're the one" within 1-2 months!) Not everyone is Meg Ryan and Tom hanks hor! :p
Honestly, if someone i go out with on a few dates starts getting too serious, i would be very cautious! :D
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