My no good lying boss

[n2plus6]

Last week I caught my boss lying to me. At first I shrugged it off, but now it has sunk in to this place that is deep inside of me that forces me to ponder my relationship with him. I had been nagging him to finish the program for a wine tasting we we're going to do the next day. He had to fax it to some woman that was going to actually print the

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[tubyred]

i was thinking about a different way in which you've been slightly fucked over by him. remember a really long time ago how you said there was a vague plan in the works for the future that was top secret but then i got you to tell me about it anyway and then i kept my mouth shut about it, so i'm not going to say much more here so that no one else knows what the fuck i'm talking about? but anyway, that never happened. and it's very past the time when it was said it would happen. and no mention has been made of it since then. nor plans. nor anything.

and so, there is this: i think you are getting fucked though i know he doesn't mean to do it. he's just best-case-scenario lying. see how it sucks to be on the receiving end of that? he wants things to be better than they are, so he prefers to give you the sunny version. except that it's bullshit.

but you're right: getting a different job WOULD drastically change your life. but then you would adjust and survive. my life has been drastically changed by getting a new job, but i'm making adjustments. both of our lives will drastically change again in a couple of weeks when we live in a new place. life has changes. there's both good and bad always involved with those changes. it's just a matter of finding a balance between the two and weighing how much of one overshadows the other.