have you ever had the experience of going awol on literally everyone you know and when you start to pull out of it you feel like there is no way anyone is going to even want to hear from you
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I always LOVE hearing from you, regardless of what kind of headspace you are in! And I am also not very visible at LJ at the moment, so no worries about that
But I do feel sorry for you that you got caught up in the old family dynamics without wanting to get back into your old role. It is my personal nightmare as well when this happens. And yes, find ways to meet people who see and value the real you and who understand your jokes and your personality and all your funny quirks. I am so sorry I am so far away and can't hang out with you, but if you ever think a Zoom session would be helpful, do not hesitate to contact me!
I also relate with you about not knowing the amount of family members but in my case, it's a generation further away and it concerns the children of my cousins. But I meet them so rarely that I don't care :D
ORLANDO! I've missed you, friend. Thank you so much for your kind and understanding words. Family, ugh! Wonderful and horrible at the same time. How can that be. We should totally do a zoom call, that would be a blast! 💗
You are absolutely so welcome! And I missed you too, life is so much funnier with you in it, even if your family won't see that. And I still don't know if family is a gift or a curse...
And yes, let's arrange a zoom call! What is our current time difference? It's daylight saving time here, so GMT +2.
Friend! I am such a dumbass American I don't know how to figure out the time zone. I googled it and I guess I am at GMT -7 so I really have no clue lol Still would love to chat with you, if you can work out a convenient time. I am pretty free and kind of a night owl if that helps :D
Don't blame yourself, I am always struggling with figuring out time zones as well. And I think you are right with what you found out unless you are also in a daylight-saving area. But I think you are not, so with this 9 hrs time difference we have two options: Since you are a night owl and I'm not really a morning person, we could schedule something at 1 AM your time, which will be 10 AM my time, if that works for you. Or we could go for the early afternoon at your time, like 1 PM, which is 10 PM my time. Shall I PM you with some options in the next two weeks for both timeslots?
I always LOVE hearing from you, regardless of what kind of headspace you are in! And I am also not very visible at LJ at the moment, so no worries about that
But I do feel sorry for you that you got caught up in the old family dynamics without wanting to get back into your old role. It is my personal nightmare as well when this happens. And yes, find ways to meet people who see and value the real you and who understand your jokes and your personality and all your funny quirks. I am so sorry I am so far away and can't hang out with you, but if you ever think a Zoom session would be helpful, do not hesitate to contact me!
I also relate with you about not knowing the amount of family members but in my case, it's a generation further away and it concerns the children of my cousins. But I meet them so rarely that I don't care :D
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Family, ugh! Wonderful and horrible at the same time. How can that be. We should totally do a zoom call, that would be a blast! 💗
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You are absolutely so welcome! And I missed you too, life is so much funnier with you in it, even if your family won't see that. And I still don't know if family is a gift or a curse...
And yes, let's arrange a zoom call! What is our current time difference? It's daylight saving time here, so GMT +2.
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Friend! I am such a dumbass American I don't know how to figure out the time zone. I googled it and I guess I am at GMT -7 so I really have no clue lol
Still would love to chat with you, if you can work out a convenient time. I am pretty free and kind of a night owl if that helps :D
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Don't blame yourself, I am always struggling with figuring out time zones as well. And I think you are right with what you found out unless you are also in a daylight-saving area.
But I think you are not, so with this 9 hrs time difference we have two options:
Since you are a night owl and I'm not really a morning person, we could schedule something at 1 AM your time, which will be 10 AM my time, if that works for you.
Or we could go for the early afternoon at your time, like 1 PM, which is 10 PM my time.
Shall I PM you with some options in the next two weeks for both timeslots?
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