Stress
I don't know how much longer I can go on living in this house!! The almost constant noise, drug use, people coming over ect, has gotten on my final nerve. And every time I bring this up with my roommates they tell me that I just need to lighten up, that they can do almost whatever they want and I'm just being a tight ass. All I want is a nice, quiet home where no one is stepping on anyone else's toes!! Kit and I have been together for three years and in that three years we have NEVER had our own place!!
I have problems sleeping. As in I go to bed and wake up every two or three hours, throughout the entire night. It then takes me another half an hour, or so, just to go back to sleep. I'm going to bed at midnight and sleeping in till almost ten in the morning as a result. And all I ask is that they turn down their volume while other people are TRYING to sleep!! Yet I wake up at one am, because yet another guest as dropped by "unexpectedly" at midnight and they're talking loudly. All I mention is the time and the fact that Kit and I are trying to sleep, as I'm lying in bed attempting to go back to bed again I hear someone call me a joykill, I can still hear them because they pretty much just said alright and then ignored me.
When I was downstairs in the basement and people asked me to tone things down because others were sleeping. I usually tried to do just that or at least move my activities/conversations into another room so I wouldn't be a bother. Yet I can't even get that same courtesy given back to me. And rent payments all paid in full on time?? FORGET IT. They would rather spend their money on getting high than paying their bills!! So it ends up with Kit and I usually being short-changed. Which means we can now no longer by the things we need or pay the bills that we haven't gotten to yet, all because people would rather get high than pay the frickin rent.
I have problems sleeping. As in I go to bed and wake up every two or three hours, throughout the entire night. It then takes me another half an hour, or so, just to go back to sleep. I'm going to bed at midnight and sleeping in till almost ten in the morning as a result. And all I ask is that they turn down their volume while other people are TRYING to sleep!! Yet I wake up at one am, because yet another guest as dropped by "unexpectedly" at midnight and they're talking loudly. All I mention is the time and the fact that Kit and I are trying to sleep, as I'm lying in bed attempting to go back to bed again I hear someone call me a joykill, I can still hear them because they pretty much just said alright and then ignored me.
When I was downstairs in the basement and people asked me to tone things down because others were sleeping. I usually tried to do just that or at least move my activities/conversations into another room so I wouldn't be a bother. Yet I can't even get that same courtesy given back to me. And rent payments all paid in full on time?? FORGET IT. They would rather spend their money on getting high than paying their bills!! So it ends up with Kit and I usually being short-changed. Which means we can now no longer by the things we need or pay the bills that we haven't gotten to yet, all because people would rather get high than pay the frickin rent.