Ooookaaay....
Sometimes... i think i bring these situations on myself.
I open my mouth without thinking, say something that to me seems completely innocent and someone else takes what i've said and... maybe i should explain...
Near where i work there's a cafe where i get my coffee every morning. It's close, convenient, their coffee's good, and they deliver! On a ( Read more... )
I open my mouth without thinking, say something that to me seems completely innocent and someone else takes what i've said and... maybe i should explain...
Near where i work there's a cafe where i get my coffee every morning. It's close, convenient, their coffee's good, and they deliver! On a ( Read more... )
In a way my area is the same, i'm about an hour north of Sydney (i live on the Central Coast) and where i work... is a complete hole... and most of the guys are deadbeat dole-bludger alcoholics... or foreign (no offense foreign people that still don't speak English -hint-hint-).
Go a little further and everyone's a surfy and 'soooo much cooler than everyone else'... and probably have more sand between their ears than brains.
The coffee shop guy is weird. It's become more apparent in the last few days and i'm not just saying that because i freaked out. =P
His behaviour completely changed... and became rather creepy. The place he wanted to go was right down the road from where he lives and he pretty much expected me to make all the effort (which translated to me as him being a loser).
It's a shame things aren't as cut and dry as the movies... half of our issues wouldn't be so apparent then. I swing from wanting love to scorning love and back again, and i have a bad habit of 'open mouth insert foot'.
I'm with you on the 'at least you have experience' stuff... and i think that might be part of the reason i go on about not wanting someone... i have a bad habit of molding myself to suit other people. (Note to self- stop doing that)
I think (from what i've heard anyway since i'm about as experienced as you apparently) that relationships are different from friendships. There's a different connection, so even if you're lazy when it comes to friends, you won't necessarily be lazy when it comes to a guy.
It's a different emotion and i'm gathering a different set of behaviours that come into play. They do say that you jump through hoops when you're in love, so either you become really flexible and athletic or your brain becomes so fixated that you'll do anything to be with them.
Either way, i think you'd do just fine in a relationship and are being far too hard on yourself. You're a (from what i've seen =P) nice person and clearly have a great sense of humour, you're talented and have a wide range of interests... i suppose the only issue now is to find someone who isn't a complete loser who sees what all your friends no doubt see (and more).
... Did that make sense?
(I'm a Capricorn so if you don't get my humour it's because there is none. XD)
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