settling in
The initial, stressful "working-in" period of my job seems to be over, and I've started to settle into a more comfortable rhythm. Last Thursday I finally got my own computer and phone to use -- and -- (hold your breath here) -- they're located in an office! Incredible. My name's not outside the door yet, and it's a temporary position for now. But in June I'll be able to apply for the job and I think I'll have a good chance of getting it, provided I manage to do it well in the coming months. So that's definitely looking up. Today I didn't even feel rushed, and I managed to get some important things done.
I'm starting to settle in in other respects as well. I managed to get my PA driver's license & registration, car insurance, and a cell phone. I managed to get (most all) of my things put away. I met Michael's family (at least the ones he sees on a regular basis) and am much better at finding my way around now. One of the most important things (to me) was getting our computers networked so we could share the Internet connection - score one for me there. (And I thank my friend ubiquitoussolo for his advice on setting it up). The only things I need to worry about now are wrapping up some financial loose ends from before the move and finding people and hobbies to occupy my free time. And oh yeah, I need to get around to that exercising resolution.
Speaking of the resolutions (see http://www.livejournal.com/users/myra_musing/47501.html), here's an update, with the four star rating system...
1. Stop acquiring so much shit. *** 1/2 out of ****
I've been doing pretty well with this one. Just following the old one-in-one-out rule. Yep. Pretty much. I could still pitch some stuff and never miss it, though. Most likely ;)
2. Stop living in the past. ** 1/2 out of ****
This one's been a bit harder. I've been trying to resist the urge to compare the present situation to the past. However, when I do, the comparison tends to favor the current situation, so that's not so bad. Still, I would like to focus more, not just on the present, but also on the future.
3. Stop lapsing into depression and inactivity. ** out of ****
I've been doing so-so with this one. Could be better, but it could also definitely be worse. I need to work on both parts. This weekend I was especially lazy, especially Saturday. I think I got 0 things on my TO DO list done.
4. Be more tolerant of disappointments and less prone to frustration. * 1/2 out of ****
No matter how much I try, this is always a bitch. Ugh. I'm going to go easy on myself, considering moves are stressful for most people. But yeah, I need to work harder on this one.
5. Put more effort into my person in general. ** 1/2 out of ****
This could also be better, although hygiene and relaxation are things I've been pretty much taking care of. I could do more with creative/spiritual pursuits and exercise. Oh well - better luck next month?
Valentine's Day has been good to me. I bought roses and candy and Michael made dinner for us. Now we're sort of hanging out next to each other. Works for me.
Hope all is well in lj-land.
I'm starting to settle in in other respects as well. I managed to get my PA driver's license & registration, car insurance, and a cell phone. I managed to get (most all) of my things put away. I met Michael's family (at least the ones he sees on a regular basis) and am much better at finding my way around now. One of the most important things (to me) was getting our computers networked so we could share the Internet connection - score one for me there. (And I thank my friend ubiquitoussolo for his advice on setting it up). The only things I need to worry about now are wrapping up some financial loose ends from before the move and finding people and hobbies to occupy my free time. And oh yeah, I need to get around to that exercising resolution.
Speaking of the resolutions (see http://www.livejournal.com/users/myra_musing/47501.html), here's an update, with the four star rating system...
1. Stop acquiring so much shit. *** 1/2 out of ****
I've been doing pretty well with this one. Just following the old one-in-one-out rule. Yep. Pretty much. I could still pitch some stuff and never miss it, though. Most likely ;)
2. Stop living in the past. ** 1/2 out of ****
This one's been a bit harder. I've been trying to resist the urge to compare the present situation to the past. However, when I do, the comparison tends to favor the current situation, so that's not so bad. Still, I would like to focus more, not just on the present, but also on the future.
3. Stop lapsing into depression and inactivity. ** out of ****
I've been doing so-so with this one. Could be better, but it could also definitely be worse. I need to work on both parts. This weekend I was especially lazy, especially Saturday. I think I got 0 things on my TO DO list done.
4. Be more tolerant of disappointments and less prone to frustration. * 1/2 out of ****
No matter how much I try, this is always a bitch. Ugh. I'm going to go easy on myself, considering moves are stressful for most people. But yeah, I need to work harder on this one.
5. Put more effort into my person in general. ** 1/2 out of ****
This could also be better, although hygiene and relaxation are things I've been pretty much taking care of. I could do more with creative/spiritual pursuits and exercise. Oh well - better luck next month?
Valentine's Day has been good to me. I bought roses and candy and Michael made dinner for us. Now we're sort of hanging out next to each other. Works for me.
Hope all is well in lj-land.