What's in a name
So - I want to write about what I've been doing with the new man in my life. I have several scenes I want to share, but...
I don't know what to call him!
I know it's silly, but I feel odd calling him "the new guy." I don't want to use his name for obvious reasons...but I can't call him my "submissive" or "boyfriend." Neither fits.
He's - mine. He likes being with me and around me, wants to do things for me, loves to submit to me...but he's also turning over his schedule to me, letting me make changes, trusting me to help him make positive changes in his life. He'd drop things for me, I know, though I've not asked it, and he'd make changes in himself based on my desires - I know that, too, though I haven't asked that either.
He's not a slave, though - that's too much, too far, not what he's giving to me. I find myself without a word, and so - I'm oddly stuck.
Any suggestions?
I don't know what to call him!
I know it's silly, but I feel odd calling him "the new guy." I don't want to use his name for obvious reasons...but I can't call him my "submissive" or "boyfriend." Neither fits.
He's - mine. He likes being with me and around me, wants to do things for me, loves to submit to me...but he's also turning over his schedule to me, letting me make changes, trusting me to help him make positive changes in his life. He'd drop things for me, I know, though I've not asked it, and he'd make changes in himself based on my desires - I know that, too, though I haven't asked that either.
He's not a slave, though - that's too much, too far, not what he's giving to me. I find myself without a word, and so - I'm oddly stuck.
Any suggestions?