ok so i can't hold this in any longer...
i doubt anyone that relates to this situation enough to get pissed at me is going to read this, so here it goes...
my brothers girlfriend of FOUR FUCKING YEARS just broke up with him last week. i am completely shocked, and probably just a little less hurt than he is. she was like a sister to me. and they did everything together, and he did EVERYTHING for her. my family welcomed her in more than they have EVER welcomed in any of MY BOYFRIENDS. we threw her birthday parties at my house, she celebrated every holiday with us, she was literally part of the family. everyone in my family loves her. she just moved out of an appartment to live in Orlando with my brother and she made him get rid of his cat, his bed, and made alot of changes to HIS appartment that he was clearly happy with before she moved in there. now, she got a job at the SAME PLACE my brother works at (and knows no one else in orlando BUT jeff) but shes moving out, but staying IN ORLANDO becuase "she likes her job". my dad and i both think that she met someone else, most likely at the place shes working at.
my brother is COMPLETELY crushed, which he has EVERY right to be. ive been hurt so many times, but, ive never been with someone for FOUR years, and he has NEVER been hurt before, never. she was pretty much his first girlfriend. the ONLY girl outside of the family that he has EVER said "i love you" to. he told my mom "she wont even look at me...when i look around, everything reminds me of her" BIG FUCKING STAB RIGHT IN THE CHEST. how could she do that? how can she say she just doesnt love him anymore? WHAT HASNT HE DONE FOR HER? he has gotton her everything she has ever wanted, done so many things that he didnt want to do because SHE wanted to. now he is left completely heartbroken and shattered. all he has known for the past 4 and a half years of his life have been her, same with me! i honestly dont know how to go about this. its so unreal.
my brothers girlfriend of FOUR FUCKING YEARS just broke up with him last week. i am completely shocked, and probably just a little less hurt than he is. she was like a sister to me. and they did everything together, and he did EVERYTHING for her. my family welcomed her in more than they have EVER welcomed in any of MY BOYFRIENDS. we threw her birthday parties at my house, she celebrated every holiday with us, she was literally part of the family. everyone in my family loves her. she just moved out of an appartment to live in Orlando with my brother and she made him get rid of his cat, his bed, and made alot of changes to HIS appartment that he was clearly happy with before she moved in there. now, she got a job at the SAME PLACE my brother works at (and knows no one else in orlando BUT jeff) but shes moving out, but staying IN ORLANDO becuase "she likes her job". my dad and i both think that she met someone else, most likely at the place shes working at.
my brother is COMPLETELY crushed, which he has EVERY right to be. ive been hurt so many times, but, ive never been with someone for FOUR years, and he has NEVER been hurt before, never. she was pretty much his first girlfriend. the ONLY girl outside of the family that he has EVER said "i love you" to. he told my mom "she wont even look at me...when i look around, everything reminds me of her" BIG FUCKING STAB RIGHT IN THE CHEST. how could she do that? how can she say she just doesnt love him anymore? WHAT HASNT HE DONE FOR HER? he has gotton her everything she has ever wanted, done so many things that he didnt want to do because SHE wanted to. now he is left completely heartbroken and shattered. all he has known for the past 4 and a half years of his life have been her, same with me! i honestly dont know how to go about this. its so unreal.