Mar 03, 2003 08:00
Well, I did NOT want to be dragged into this, but....here's a recap of the events. (I'm trying to give both sides here, in a neutral format. Please read this, even if you think you got the whole story.)
It all starts in A/V. Safina and I do the radio together. We're acquaintances. Now, we all know Safina has a flirty kind of misdemenor. You know? Brushing up against people and really huggy. Now, I'm alright with that, in fact alot of my best friends are like that. Now the trick to being like that, is to know when to stop doing it. When Shani and I are together, that might be a clue to stop acting like that to me, Safina. Example: Shani and I are in the hall outside AV/Voice Ensamble towards the end of third period, not bothering anyone. Safina comes up to say hello, and she does say hello. But not hello, she says "hello" with a certain flirty overtone on it. Then, while Shani still standing there, she offers me a "piece of her cake" and then licks her fork. Now, Shani sees this and being a classic jealous girlfriend flips out. I calm her down and explain the situation and say Safina didn't mean anything by it, that's just how she acts. And it's left at that. Then, she asks what Safina's name is. I say Safina. That opens up a rather large can of worms...You see, Shani has heard a story involving that name...And this ends up being critical...please continue reading... Shani has a little brother named Micah. Micah is, how can I put it?, not a... "social person". Safina and Micah are at Club Static. Safina's friends are at Club Static as well. Upon hearing that Micah was already in 9th grade without being kissed, Safina's friends dare her to kiss him. So, Safina comes up to Micah and Micah thinks that Safina really likes him, not that she was dared into it. So, Safina finally completes the dare by kissing him. Not an innocent kiss, but rather a large kiss Now, does that sound like a good thing? A boy getting his first kiss...on a dare? Well, big sister has always had this hatred for this little freshman girl messing with her brother, and probably for good reason. Well, now she's made the connection, and realizes...wait...this is the same girl! So, hell breaks loose on Safina. Now, I'm not justifying or even agreeing with Shani's response, but hey, you do stupid things out of anger. The thing what brings me into this situation...is that Safina felt the urge to bring other people into this situation to lash out at the person that hurt their "Dear Safina". These people really don't know the situation so they can't criticize Shani as a person, so they criticize her spelling? Whatever. Dear Drama Club, I had NOTHING to do with this! Was there a need to give me 'the evil stare'? Was it because Safina said to? Well, now that you know the entire situation maybe you'll rethink your methods, or, probably, you'll continue your blind crusade in your ignorance. Blindy 'saving' your "Dear Safina" from the trouble that she gets herself into.
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