OK. For the last time. If 1) you name your spouse as your first beneficiary then 2) if your child inherits then 3) your spouse must be dead so 4) your spouse can NEVER BE THE TRUSTEE FOR YOUR CHILD OMG QUIT DOING THAT PEOPLE YOU ARE DUMB.
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