How do you know or is it that feeling?

[mstiffany1506]

Awhile ago I was so set on being a one of a kind. Then I met this person _________ and we really hit it off. He made a lot of my guy friends jealous, but the more I get to know every detail about him. I think he's a lot like me. The weird thing is he is on my mind all day every day and I use to think guys were a waste that my dream would be

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Re: i wish...

[naissuryzarc999]

If I may just assert myself in here I'd just like to say a few things. Dude seriously the more you talk like that the further you push people away from you, so told your tongue and actually talk to someone with a little more wisdom than those in your age range. True at times you believe that the person of your dreams has betrayed you by not accepting your aching heart but that's only because they see you as you and nothing more. Subtle things like you listed above are just occasions of bonding, nothing more nor less. Your taking those times for granted in which the two of you have become good friends. If your continual harassment continues you Will loser her for sure. I'm pretty sure you wouldn't want that, now would you? These feelings you have for her are natural, hell even a couple of them have flashed by me, but I didn't make a big deal about it. You've got to learn how to manage your emotions otherwise unfortunate things might happen. Now I mean you no disrespect, but I'm just trying to get a point out to you that some people haven't apparently told you as of yet. If you feel upset fine, understandable to a degree, but telling that you will hurt the one you care so much for and or their interest is a complete contradiction to your words. If you care so much for her you will learn to let her live her life the way she wants and when the bad times come, praying not for awhile, you can be there for aid and comfort. Just move on simply, there are many fish in the sea, true right now things seem bad, but they will pick up again. You can't change the past or the present but you can prepare for the future. Das ist alles.

Re: i wish...

[johndeer792]

i never said i would hurt her she could say what ever she wanted to me or do whatever she wanted to me i would never lay a finger on her or even let that thought come to mind i was talking about hurting myself i need help and which i am trying so hard to get. this whole situation has been hard for me right now plus all the other negative things in my life right now. thanks for the wisdom i appreciate that.