Considering the economy and how so many people are struggling with life changes, career changes, and just hard times right now, I thought this was worth sharing. (And yeah, I need to keep this stuff in mind myself - seriously thinking about checking out Daly's book.)

You can find the original article here.

( Body of the article back here... )

"Relationship SuperPowers"? Oh my, the mental images that come to mind...I've read WAY too many graphic novels lately...

Awesome Article: 5 Rules From the Polyamorous for Not Screwing Up Valentines Day. Take notes while reading.

*grins*

I thought the most recent offering by alan7388 on his blog - Polyamory In The News - was pretty stellar and far reaching, and had a LOT of good things to say about being poly through the holidays. SO, I'm sharing it here as well. :)

( Poly and Jolly for the Holidays )

Mom fights, gets the delivery she wantsNot sure which makes me happier - the story itself (which is awesome, and even gives props to doulas), or where it came from (the ex-girlfriend sent it to me in e-mail) :D ( Read more... )

Not only do they have groups and discussions and some *really* cool people to talk to in the "community" area (I keep finding fellow LJ-ers), but they also publish some really good articles, too.

This one I liked just 'cause I loved the title (how many times have I said that he's not a tame 'Yote, hmmm?) LOL
Feral And Tame PolysAnd this one was ( Read more... )

Once again I'm reposting with permission from my friend vorscott- this is amazingly good stuff (and makes total sense to this IT geek slaving away in corporate America where such principles are implemented with varying degrees of success). And being a total "Fix the problem, not the blame" person, and recognizing maybe not everyone else "gets that" ( ( Read more... )

I found this hilarious (and yes, some of you are listed...just sayin' - and no, I'm not exempt either and I fully admit that). LOL

The 12 most annoying types of Facebookers

LiveJournal is still my first love. :) But I've become quite fond of Facebook (once I figured out how to ignore all the annoying apps...) :)

Interestingly enough, I've been on the author's "Erotic_Ohio" yahoo group for years (and it wasn't until after 'Yote moved down here that I had the "Doh! That's right - Gaylen lives in Kent! We totally could have met up!" moment). :) Hey, the yahoo group had been pretty quiet for a while, so it didn't occur to me at the time.
Totally need to make ( Read more... )

From Psychotherapy Brown Bag
( I still giggle every time I see them refer to this as CBT... )

In response to the NYT article I posted about yesterday, a dear friend messaged me privately with a question:

“OK, I do know a few poly people - and while I don't think it would be my cup o' tea, I have no problem with multiple partnered people in triads, or quads, or whatever boundaries the multiple relationship manages if it works for all ( Read more... )