(GT) *blink*
That moment when you realize your need for your mate to be your Dominant, at least in play, and the fact that the lack thereof is a Big Deal (and leaves you wanting to throw a two-year-old-size tantrum "but I don't WANNA find anybody else to play that role!" every time you think about it) probably stems from when your first husband couldn't be "the head of the house" like you'd been led to expect by the Bible (and like he'd promised to be), and haven't gotten over the fact you always have to be the grown up...
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