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ms_mittens

Ok

Apr 21, 2011 22:35

"Ok" it can mean so much and so little. We toss it around absentmindedly and use it as a deliberate lie to to cover the truth because that's what everyone expects. I have gotten very good at it. I've had a lifetime to perfect and make believable "I'm ok ( Read more... )

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darklysewn April 22 2011, 08:38:54 UTC

first of all i want to give you a nice long hug.

be good to yourself right now. cherish the good times with her. no one can take away those memories. and know that when you want to reach out to her, you can. just sit quietly and ask yourself "what would she say?" and it'll come to you.

trust in yourself. she brought you up to be a strong woman. and you are. make her proud every day, by being the best you, you can be. some days you just can't do it all, and that's ok. somedays you'll organize small countries, balance the checkbooks of five nations, bake cookies AND do all the dishes. some days you'll just sit on the couch with a bottle of wine, a good friend, and bad TV that makes you laugh. each day is what you make of it. and it's ok to take a little time out right now

it's gonna hurt sweetie. i'm not gonna lie. but it does get easier. and yes, you are allowed to miss her. no one can tell you any different.

give yourself a little more time. you will be ok. you will.
:)

ms_mittens May 2 2011, 03:27:08 UTC

Thank you Tiffany and I know that you really do understand.

fetishmystique April 22 2011, 11:43:42 UTC

You still have a mom. And a biggest cheerleader. Those words of encouragement are are etched across your heart. Her voice will always be present.

ms_mittens May 2 2011, 03:27:43 UTC

fetishmystique May 7 2011, 20:00:49 UTC

I know this weekend is going to be tough. Loss is. But toast her. She made and nurtured beautiful you.

Celebrate that with tears and smiles.

And a big bear hug that won't fill the space, but hopefully reminds you that that you are loved.

winemaker_ca April 30 2011, 11:47:39 UTC

Remember you still have another big cheerleader. Call any time you need to, when you feel the need to call mom call me. I love you.

Also, please do not feel guilty. Everything possible was done to try to get her out of that situation. There's nothing more that could have been done.