True colours shining thru
Man, lately, i have been truly seeing the masks of my friends come flying off. I have, sadly, had to terminate 3 friendships in the past week. it's like a friendicide happening. MY problem is that I am a nice person. A really nice person. add to that, i have the attitude of "there is good in everyone". I think this is why this chest congestion is
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Seriously, you're quite possibly one of the nicest people I've ever met. You went so far beyond the call of being a friend, much less an LJ friend I haven't known for long, at Otakon and most recently when I was in NYC with Sammi. You are an AWESOME person, and those people have lost a GREAT deal in their lives by you cutting them out. I know it sucks right now, but you... you're awesome. You still be the wonderful, positive, loveable you, and the rest of us will appreciate in your awesomeness.
Btw, the "Let's Get Together Crap" is such bullshit on the girl's part. There's always one basic principle I live by: Don't say something you don't mean. If you can't come up with the time to do something or commit to something once you've said it, don't say it. Beyond the fact that you become a liar, you also wind up disappointing and hurting someone else.
Re: The referral person? That's just utter crap. Even if she wasn't willing to help out for whatever stupid reason, all she had to do was politely reply and say "I'm sorry but I don't feel comfortable with doing this." It's juvenile...
Which brings me to TV critic man. Honestly, all critics are are severely bitter people who are angry that others have the opportunity to do what they have clearly failed at. There IS such a thing as constructive criticism, and if he were a good critic, he would've pointed out the good and the areas that needed to be worked on. Even though being a critic and an asshole are mutually exclusive, it's too bad that they don't seem to be the case in the real world.
So having said all that... you be you. Be awesome. Shine. Be Lusmila :) WE ALL LOVE YOU!!! :)
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that's a good principle to live by. I usually am like that, i am finding that, as I get older, I just don't have time for games and superficiality. And, i think this is further cementing that belief.
Even if she wasn't willing to help out for whatever stupid reason, all she had to do was politely reply and say "I'm sorry but I don't feel comfortable with doing this." It's juvenile...
yes! that;s what i felt, when it happened. If she did NOT want to do it, instead of BLATANTLY ignoring me for MONTHS she could have EASILY said she was uncomfortable doing this.
ugh, the last guy...i had actually asked one friend who is intuitive, then also asked my intuitive, and they both felt that he LIKES me and is jealous. I was starting to get this vibe that he was attracted to me. i guess this is his way of trying to invalidate his feelings, by invalidating and hurting me. what a baffoon.
thanks gurl! i love ya!
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