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Today I remembered why it sucks to be female.

Starting at birth, society (and its pages, the people, our families, the church, the schools, and above all the media) tells us the most important thing we can be is pretty. I tried this for a long time. By the age of 15 I was in rehab for bulimia. Since then I've struggled with relapse and most of all, ( Read more... )

What the fuck is this shitI bought some on-sale broccoli cole slaw at the grocery store across the street today ( Read more... )

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So many straight men have no experience of being wanted. So many straight men have no experience of sensing a gaze of outright longing. Even many men who are wise in the world and in relationships, who know that their wives or girlfriends love them, do not know what it is to be admired and longed for for their bodies and their looks. They may know ( Read more... )

I had a conversation both interesting and frustrating with a couple of bar employees tonight ( Read more... )

I've been noticing something repeating lately and it's getting on my nuuurrrrrves. Every time I go to the Web site for a show I want to see, or a DJ I want to see, I am bombarded with (in the promotional video or pictures or both) a bunch of chicks getting down on each other/with the camera at the previous show, or creepy footage of girls dancing ( Read more... )

You know, during the last month I've been doing a lot of thinking... or rather, a lot of doing and less thinking about that doing, and then thinking about not thinking about doing and how nice it is ( Read more... )

I have certain qualms about being healthy. Over the last couple of years I've come to realize this. Having to eat like a Chinese farmer and exercise almost daily to maintain a stable mental condition doesn't exactly scream "Secure Woman.” In fact, it’s kind of embarrassing. One of the things I'm uneasy about is telling people about my lifestyle, ( Read more... )