My bro's relationship
So my family has been on vacation since Sunday and I have stayed here at home. I left little notes for everyone in their suitcases. I left one in Joel's bag telling him that the first summer Ryan and I were dating, I only talked to him once for about 10 minutes the whole week we were gone, and I told him to think about our relationship and how important I was to him. I suggested maybe he and Ella should do that. However, as I expected, he's talked to her for huge amounts of time everyday they've been gone. Evidently, a couple days ago, she called and Joel could tell she was with other people so he asked her where she was. She said she was at Mikey's house and then told Joel she wanted to take a break for a while.
Now, if I told a guy I wanted to "take a break," I don't think I would be talking to him everyday still or anything like that. However, being the psycho she is, she calls him again the next day. So Joel asked her, "Where's Mikey taking you tonight?" and she started crying. Joel's conclusion is that she's mad at him and is lashing out by telling him she wants a break and seeing Mike. So I'm uncertain as to if they're back together/if he's okay with her/or what.
I'm sorry, maybe it's just me, but if my boyfriend treated me like that I would dump him. She's ridiculous - her whole family is! Joel was at a basketball camp last week and his roommate had mono, so he was exposed to it. My mom felt compelled to call Ella's mom to let her know about it, and Mrs. Wayne decided that she didn't want Joel to spend time with Ella until we were sure he didn't have it. So Ella called and was upset because she heard that my mom didn't want Joel to go over there. After several minutes of explaining that is not how the conversation went at all, it was decided that Joel was simply not allowed to go to their house. A little bit later she calls back and she's crying and told Joel that her family was telling her that Joel is jealous of her running career and wants to ruin her ability to run in college by giving her mono. (Personally, I find that to be the most immature and ridiculous story I've ever heard.) In the end, everything ended up being "fine" and she came over to our house.
I'm just tired of all the drama and I think it's starting to get to Joel too. Mom was saying that he's smart he should be able to see that this isn't a normal relationship. I informed her that Joe dated his girlfriend for 2.5 years before he realized how poorly his girlfriend treated him. It wasn't until he saw how Ryan and I interacted that he realized it either. Plus, I think Joel doesn't want to create a conflict or become the bad guy. He'd rather just ride it out and wait for her to break it off when she goes to school. Thankfully that's only a couple of weeks away.
I still don't know anything about my ad. Mike's said next week we should know. Well, I need to get back to work. Namarie
Now, if I told a guy I wanted to "take a break," I don't think I would be talking to him everyday still or anything like that. However, being the psycho she is, she calls him again the next day. So Joel asked her, "Where's Mikey taking you tonight?" and she started crying. Joel's conclusion is that she's mad at him and is lashing out by telling him she wants a break and seeing Mike. So I'm uncertain as to if they're back together/if he's okay with her/or what.
I'm sorry, maybe it's just me, but if my boyfriend treated me like that I would dump him. She's ridiculous - her whole family is! Joel was at a basketball camp last week and his roommate had mono, so he was exposed to it. My mom felt compelled to call Ella's mom to let her know about it, and Mrs. Wayne decided that she didn't want Joel to spend time with Ella until we were sure he didn't have it. So Ella called and was upset because she heard that my mom didn't want Joel to go over there. After several minutes of explaining that is not how the conversation went at all, it was decided that Joel was simply not allowed to go to their house. A little bit later she calls back and she's crying and told Joel that her family was telling her that Joel is jealous of her running career and wants to ruin her ability to run in college by giving her mono. (Personally, I find that to be the most immature and ridiculous story I've ever heard.) In the end, everything ended up being "fine" and she came over to our house.
I'm just tired of all the drama and I think it's starting to get to Joel too. Mom was saying that he's smart he should be able to see that this isn't a normal relationship. I informed her that Joe dated his girlfriend for 2.5 years before he realized how poorly his girlfriend treated him. It wasn't until he saw how Ryan and I interacted that he realized it either. Plus, I think Joel doesn't want to create a conflict or become the bad guy. He'd rather just ride it out and wait for her to break it off when she goes to school. Thankfully that's only a couple of weeks away.
I still don't know anything about my ad. Mike's said next week we should know. Well, I need to get back to work. Namarie