Documenting.

Aug 25, 2018 23:48

Well, as I've been told I should do I'm writing things down as they happen. As you can see with the time stamp on this it's nearly 11:30PM and my Dad usually goes to bed by 8 or 9 and I know he's been just sitting in his chair for the past few hours after his -friend- though he wants her to be his girlfriend and have..
Yeah, well anyway, he's been there all this time and I brought the doog out after feeding her and she's barking at him, yet again, and he's not moving, as usual.
I tell people that molasses could freeeze and while it /might/ be an exaggeration you get the point.

I'm skipping recording audio, for now, I figure if I do that people will flip out over it and ask if I got permission.
For what, an old man ignoring or unable to care for his pet? I feed her, when I'm here and take her out when I'm here.
He's got dementia and I'm not crazy despite what he may tell people, which I'm not sure of  the stories told but I do suspect. It's a common thing, Deflect, Deny, Lie.
Pardon me, this is neglect and abuse though not physical, yet, in nature, he does forget to check her water, can't really get her to listen to him and behavioral problems already have appeared. She gets fed in the morning either by his friend Joanne or himself..if he gets up on time, which is doubtful without a phone call to prompt him to get up.
Oh, sure, sure everything is OKAY..and I call bullshit.
Please, look up the signs that there is a problem with caring for a pet  and things that are not being done.
She has meds to be given, I hurt her after being bitten and I've been the one giving her these meds because after peeing in the kitchen I mopped up the floor and since the dog has a licking issue and the cleaner was on the floor she puked. So, now Dad won't give her these pills because he's telling people thry made her sick, no matter how it's explained that they did not, it was the lemon cleaner.
C'mon people, are you THAT deaf and blind?

To think, I'm telling the truth and yet I'm treated as a pariah and  know my credibility isn't or shouldn't be an issue when I know my father's word means jack.
That's pretty sad..
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