dating test makes some weird assumptions
http://connect.ku.edu/~connect/cgi-bin/flirt.php
Physical style: not very physical
You scored higher than 30-40% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was not very likely that you:
* Felt attracted right away.
* Were successful when you flirted using your body language.
This is fairly accurate for me. I have no physical flirtations, except maybe for when I am feeling slapstick, but that is not sexy in a sexy-sexy way.
Traditional style: not at all traditional
You scored higher than 0-10% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very unlikely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
That last line is not accurate for me. all of ym relationships seem to be meaningful. everything is so goddam meaningful I kind of wish maybe it wasn't.
Polite style: not very polite
You scored higher than 30-40% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not really believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are not very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be not very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is not very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are somewhat likely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are not very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Again with that last sentence! I am always accused of being forward when I had no idea I was being forward.
Sincere style: sincere
You scored higher than 50-60% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
meh
Playful style: very playful
You scored higher than 90-100% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You do not believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You strongly believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.
what is this crap about not lasting? haha I am 100% playful
Physical style: not very physical
You scored higher than 30-40% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are not very comfortable and competent in expressing your sexual interest to potential partners. You are not very capable of figuring out that potential partners are interested in you, and not very effective at conveying romantic interest to potential partners. In your last serious relationship, it was not very likely that you:
* Felt attracted right away.
* Were successful when you flirted using your body language.
This is fairly accurate for me. I have no physical flirtations, except maybe for when I am feeling slapstick, but that is not sexy in a sexy-sexy way.
Traditional style: not at all traditional
You scored higher than 0-10% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not believe that men should make the first move and women should not pursue men. You are very unlikely to feel uncomfortable in a flirting situation where a woman takes charge. You tend to be not at all choosey about who you flirt with, and it is very unlikely that you are selective about who you pursue romantic relationships with. In serious relationships, you do not believe that you should know a potential relationship partner for a long time before approaching them. You are very unlikely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
That last line is not accurate for me. all of ym relationships seem to be meaningful. everything is so goddam meaningful I kind of wish maybe it wasn't.
Polite style: not very polite
You scored higher than 30-40% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You do not really believe that courtship should be cautious and rule-governed. You are not very likely to use proper manners, non-sexual communication, and less forward behavior during courtship. You tend to be not very choosey about who you flirt with, and it is not very likely that you took a long time to get to know someone before you knew you were romantically interested in them. You are somewhat likely to like the singles scene and the way people typically flirt with one another. You are not very likely to seek out important and meaningful romantic relationships.
Again with that last sentence! I am always accused of being forward when I had no idea I was being forward.
Sincere style: sincere
You scored higher than 50-60% of other survey takers in your demographic.
For this flirting style, you are very similar to the majority of people. It is not a dominant style for you. This flirting style probably doesn’t play a big role in your flirting behavior.
meh
Playful style: very playful
You scored higher than 90-100% of other survey takers in your demographic.
You are very likely to use flirting to boost your self-esteem and to have a good time. You do not believe that flirting should be reserved for the purpose of developing a relationship. You are very likely to flirt with those who you have no long-term romantic interest. You are very likely to find romantic interest in many other people, and to flirt everywhere you go. You strongly believe that flirting is flattering and enjoyable. In your last serious relationship, you were very likely to have a short and unimportant relationship that moved quickly, but didn’t last.
what is this crap about not lasting? haha I am 100% playful