Need Some Advice

[monavoir]

ETA 4/10/08: For those of you coming from her journal (I won't name it to protect the names, please note the following: Everything I said here was affirmed by the fact that she lost her job days later in a fury of drama and checked herself into the hospital twice (I'm guessing NOT because her life is so put together). I spoke to her in love and

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[monavoir]

IT doesn't matter if she was high at work - she herself said she was at the least high immediately before and after - and she's said that she hasn't lied.

At minimum, it is endangering to the very children she intends to protect because if her testimony removes a child from an abusive/neglectful home and the court finds out she has a drug problem, the the ruling will be overturned, potentially risking the child's wellbeing. If she has such a "real" law degree, she'd know that.

Apparently no one "gets" that cocaine, alcohol, a severe history of bipolar and committing suicide are NOT GOOD FOR ANYONE. I don't care if she hurt anyone else, my first concern was and is for HER. I don't care how "together" or "temporary" you feel a situation is, when someone holds a gun to their head, ITS NOT GOOD. Her life fell apart shortly after this - she lost her job, ended up in the hospital twice among other things. Every concern I expressed to her was spot on - the only difference was I was the only one to have the balls to say, "I'm worried about you - you can't go on like this before something horrible happens - if you need help, let me know what I can do for you." And today? I told her she deserves to be loved unconditionally, no matter how she feels about her life and I hoped that Steve would step up and PICK HER.

OMGzzzsw I'm a horrid person.

I'm not sure what you guyz' problem is. But I'm not changing my stance. I was right before and I'm right now. She deserves to be loved unconditionally and I'm not going to say differently. She shouldn't settle for less that she deserves and if she ever needs help (you know like a placed to stay to escape the abusive home she's in now), she is welcome at my house. How many of you made her the same offer?

Taken your misplaced hatred somewhere else.

[monavoir]

eek *trying to commit suicide*