I repeat myself when under stress, I repeat myself when under stress.....
There were a few of you who told me you'd make sure I would be called & informed about the events to pay our respects to Jay & NONE OF YOU TOLD ME A GODDAMN THING! How shitty! Maybe it doesn't matter to you people, but I've been friends with him for a long time, too! Also, I went out & got a bunch of pictures I've taken of him over the last 5 years
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Listen, becuase Im only gonna say this once, and I'm going to try and put it as nicly as possible. This shit hasn't been easy for any of us. In all the confusion and stress surrounding Jays death, and the funeral and wake arrangements, people were accidently not told. This shit happend. Believe me when I say there were people a hell of a lot closer to Jay then you or I that didn't find out in time either, for various reasons. Even if I had decided to go to the funeral, I doubt I would have had the chance since I don't have a car either. Hell, he was the guitar player for dragon tears for a long while, and I don't think calvin even knows that Jays gone.
I am sorry you didn't get informed in time, but you need to pull this shit over to the side of the highway, becuase this is not the time or the place for it. We all have to figure out our own way of mourning the loss, and you'll just have to do it without going to a mosque where people use religeon to treat women like 3rd rate citizens so they can put bags over thier heads and stick them in the back of the building. Besides, you knew he had died, did you call anyone to find out what was going on?
The lab party was just a bunch of people getting lit and exchanging jay stories, both of which you can feel free to do with all of us at any time. We all have memories of Jay, and the sharing of them isn't going to stop just cause the parties over.
As for the photos, if you have a scanner, scan them in and send them to pat. He is compiling a cd or dvd of everyones pictures of jay for friends and family. If you don't have a scanner, I'm sure pat can figure out a way to scan them in on his own.
Im sorry about the shit adriane pulled, if I could bring her head to you on a stick Id do it just to rid the world of another evil. And yes, I believe she is actually evil, not just meanspirited, but biblicly evil.
Im glad your soon to be hubby has decided to take better care of himself and his diabetes. Its a very serious problem if left unchecked, and we collectivly don't need anymore funerals.
good luck with everything,
James
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First let me say this: YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY RIGHT ABOUT ALL OF THIS (and yes, I believe Adrianne is inherantly evil, too).
I did actually call several people to find out info, but everyone was going through so much that they didn't give me the necessary stuff.
See my post.
:)
Miss you,
Lissa
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By the way, I don't ever think any reaction of mine means mad at you. It doesn't, and I'm not even sure its possible.
Take care, and be careful.
James
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Not sure what is possible? Being mad, or being mad at me, haha... I piss people off pretty regularly, seems to be mostly home wreckers & sloppy seconds girls though, so I don't take it too much to heart anymore. There are just some people whose lives are always going to be crappier than mine no matter how much mine can suck sometimes, & they either have to change themselves or learn to deal...No loaded statements at ALL there! *snicker*
I was wondering if you'd like to come over here around 6ish on Saturday the 26th? I'm sure we can figure out a way to get you here if you need a ride. That is Natalie's birthday observed (her real birthday is the 21st). Not a major thing, just maybe some pizza, baby getting into a cakie mess...and crisco twister, no biggie...
You take care too, or my taking care will be more difficult.
I really missed you so much.
Lissa
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Mad at you silly.
I'd love to come over for nat's b-day. Before I leave monroe my van will be street legal, though my mother keeps putting off running me in to town to get the liscence on it. Im hoping she will run me in tomorrow.
I missed you too lissa, and don't worry about me. I'll be just fine.
Later,
James
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Talk to you soon! We need to hang out more.
:)
Lissa
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