The Vicious Circle
They say the best submissive is the best person to dominate another. I often wonder the beautiful truth of that statement.
To submit totally to another is one of the most erotic things I can think of. The helplessness, the sheer terror at times, and who can forget the pleasure? Betimes I wonder why I feel more of a pull to the dominant side of things. For all that I relish those feelings and delight in all of it, I don't know why I feel the need to control in certain situations. The only theory I have in my head is that mayhap, I so want to please the submissive (a fact that is submissive of itself) that I will dominate and humiliate them to extremes. To me it's a beautiful and complex circle. Who really is in charge? The Dom or the Sub?
Certainly the sub is doing as told; enjoying the orders, the pain, the helplessness, and perhaps even a bit of mischief in disobedience on purpose.
The dom, though giving the orders, is really pleasing the sub, and in turn pleasing herself by submitting to the will of the submissive.
As I said, the most beautiful, intricate, complicated, insanely enjoyable circle. Vicious enough to bite, but to bite in such a pleasurable way... *smile*
To submit totally to another is one of the most erotic things I can think of. The helplessness, the sheer terror at times, and who can forget the pleasure? Betimes I wonder why I feel more of a pull to the dominant side of things. For all that I relish those feelings and delight in all of it, I don't know why I feel the need to control in certain situations. The only theory I have in my head is that mayhap, I so want to please the submissive (a fact that is submissive of itself) that I will dominate and humiliate them to extremes. To me it's a beautiful and complex circle. Who really is in charge? The Dom or the Sub?
Certainly the sub is doing as told; enjoying the orders, the pain, the helplessness, and perhaps even a bit of mischief in disobedience on purpose.
The dom, though giving the orders, is really pleasing the sub, and in turn pleasing herself by submitting to the will of the submissive.
As I said, the most beautiful, intricate, complicated, insanely enjoyable circle. Vicious enough to bite, but to bite in such a pleasurable way... *smile*