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Tired today. I found out that somehow my freezer is either broken or the power went off and everything defrosted. In fact, it had been defrosted for a few days. I had to throw out over 30$ of food and I don't know if the freezer is going to work still
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Your other friend is right, sounds like the 'inside you' part is the issue (and the genes putting aside adoption), surrogate mothers can be a good way to do things and is a viable option these days using both bits of you ^^. But that's something kinda off. At this point, while, when considering marriage, could to talk about a range of possibilities, but there's a lot of time ahead of you, if you can both agree that it definitely isn't something needing to be done right away, or even in the next 5 years (wont see me with kids in my 20s!!!), take some of the pressure off. You two love each other, and if you make it that far- you'll be both in a better place to make such hard and long lasting decisions.
I'm kind of the opposite sorta. I don't think I would mind the bearing children part (though the coming out part...and the exams that I need to get over anyways...) but the whole age 'just born'-4/5 (till potty trained, speaking, etc.) I really don't think that's a good idea. Kinda like- if I had money for a nanny (and to help along fixing my 'after baby body') it might work. But I'm told then I wouldn't enjoy them, they wouldn't be the type of kids I'd probably deal best with. I'm like my aunt. If I could be guaranteed a kid that was just like me- easy baby and grew up fast- then would likely work (especially with a nanny, lol, or at least a house keeper...I'm not the domestic as you could probably guess, hehe). If I had a kid like my sister tho (granted how raised comes into play) *shudders*
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