He's deployed and I'm going insane

Jan 27, 2009 21:31

So, we finally figure the whole mess out that was going on and now he's gone.  Figures.  Turns out the girl was having an affair, it just wasn't with my husband.  She finally came clean when they pulled her in the office and she ended up tellling them what was really going on and only after she found out that my husband was about to be in a LOT of trouble.  Needless to say they dropped it and we are in the clear.

Anyways, my husband left Sunday, but missed the rotator flight because they moved it up a day and failed to tell half the guys that were leaving.  He is now on his way to Virginia where he will catch another flight.  He will be in country, hopefully, by the first of next month.

Now that he's gone my son is acting up like crazy, a light came on in the car, I'm not getting paid for  few weeks, and we owe the IRS $2200.  I'm so stressed out I don't know what to do right now.  I found 6 grey hairs today and can't dye my hair which is really pissing me off.  I'm about to take a permanent marker to them!

The good news is, I haven't been over eating since my husband left.  That's normally the first thing I do.  I've maintained my weight and am still working out.  I haven't cut soda out yet, because I can't handle the headaches that come with it.  My son is enough of a headache right now.  I love him dearly, but he is really pushing me this time.  Everything is a fight.  EVERYTHING.

I've done this 5 times before (hubby deploying) but this is the first one that my son really understands and it is hard on all of us.  I just don't know what to do.
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