the other day i texted my sis to ask how mom is.
me: "how's mom doing"
sis: "being mom"
me: "k thx"
yep so damn informative right?
to be honest i think i'm gonna take
helliongoddess 's advice, i'm just gonna wipe my hands of the whole deal. it's not productive nor healthy to continue to beat myself up over this. yeah i'll still check in with them occasionally but i'm gonna try my damnedest to not let it get to me. i'm not gonna borrow the van at beginning of the month, not gonna jump through hoops for them any more. why should i?