Jan 29, 2008 18:33
so yeah, how patient should a guy be with a new gf who has issues that range from her family living out of province, to a coke addiction, to continuing issues with her ex bf?
i try to be understanding, and i realize she needs someone, but even she said its not fair to me. im kinda attached to her, and i think shes a great person, but she gets really depressed sometimes and it wears on me. she also says things that make me think that this is just a temporary thing for her, and then she claims to really like my family and spending time with me, etc etc. so yeah, im kinda confused, and i really dont know what to do. id feel horrible leaving her hanging, and i really do like her, i just wish i had showed up after all this shit was taken care of. mind you she might have already found someone. i dont know.
her parents are much like my own, and her way of thinking is practical to the extreme while still kinda artsy its wierd. and outside of the fact that shes super hot, she is a nice and down to earth person and i really like that. and i just... i dont know.
megan i am sure you have got somethin to say on this. :P
let me know your thoughts.
-Zach
why so complicated?