Not again...
I'll try to make this as brief as possible, although I know me and know that it will be long.
Tonight Mikal got a call from his soon-to-be-ex-wife. She is in Sedona (where we just were) and had a dream last night that she and Mikal were there for their wedding. But, instead of getting married, she ran off and they just remained the best of friends. She called at 8:45 p.m. to tell him about this dream she had last night. He shared with me (mistake) and says that he'll call her tomorrow and tell her that it's weird she would call after having a dream there because he and I were just there.
Now, here is my problem: they are in the middle of a divorce. As it has been explained to me, it's not that happy of a divorce, either. But, she's being all nice and amicable, so he wants to take the opportunity while it's there. She still has some of his property, which he stated to me would be settled in the divorce proceedings. So, why the need to be all chatty with her now?
This is the woman he cheated on me with more than once. This is the woman that he decided to marry 5 months after he and I broke up. He's done nothing but tell me how nasty she was and now they want to be all chummy again? I don't get it. He says to me that he's hoping she decides she's madly in love with this new boyfriend and will stop dragging her feet with the divorce. As far as I knew, she wasn't dragging her feet, that it was all part of the 6 month "cooling off period" that California has.
Let me just state for the record that this is BULLSHIT, and, as I've stated before, if there has been NO MOVEMENT on the divorce by the end of July, all bets are off. I will call off our "engagement" such as it is, and be simply his "girlfriend". I will NOT go through this again. Not with her, not for him.
I'm livid inside and can't bring myself to discuss it rationally. I would love to just go to bed, but I'm really upset. So, I guess I'll just have to suck up my irrationality and go for it. He's not going to like it, but that's the way it's going to be. I will NOT allow this into our lives. I will NOT live with her ghost any more than I have to. It's bad enough that they are still married, I don't have to be present while they are getting all nice and happy again.
Man, I'm pissed.
Too much history there.
Tonight Mikal got a call from his soon-to-be-ex-wife. She is in Sedona (where we just were) and had a dream last night that she and Mikal were there for their wedding. But, instead of getting married, she ran off and they just remained the best of friends. She called at 8:45 p.m. to tell him about this dream she had last night. He shared with me (mistake) and says that he'll call her tomorrow and tell her that it's weird she would call after having a dream there because he and I were just there.
Now, here is my problem: they are in the middle of a divorce. As it has been explained to me, it's not that happy of a divorce, either. But, she's being all nice and amicable, so he wants to take the opportunity while it's there. She still has some of his property, which he stated to me would be settled in the divorce proceedings. So, why the need to be all chatty with her now?
This is the woman he cheated on me with more than once. This is the woman that he decided to marry 5 months after he and I broke up. He's done nothing but tell me how nasty she was and now they want to be all chummy again? I don't get it. He says to me that he's hoping she decides she's madly in love with this new boyfriend and will stop dragging her feet with the divorce. As far as I knew, she wasn't dragging her feet, that it was all part of the 6 month "cooling off period" that California has.
Let me just state for the record that this is BULLSHIT, and, as I've stated before, if there has been NO MOVEMENT on the divorce by the end of July, all bets are off. I will call off our "engagement" such as it is, and be simply his "girlfriend". I will NOT go through this again. Not with her, not for him.
I'm livid inside and can't bring myself to discuss it rationally. I would love to just go to bed, but I'm really upset. So, I guess I'll just have to suck up my irrationality and go for it. He's not going to like it, but that's the way it's going to be. I will NOT allow this into our lives. I will NOT live with her ghost any more than I have to. It's bad enough that they are still married, I don't have to be present while they are getting all nice and happy again.
Man, I'm pissed.
Too much history there.