Compare and Contrast
It doesnt feel fair that I'm about to do this.
But whatever.
Dan
Numbers/ business/ finance-centered
Fraternity boy
Raised with orthodox rituals
Cohen
Hard to get him to open up
Inexperienced in having a girlfriend
Special that he shows an emotional side to me
Friends for 6.5 years, very slowww and steady progression
Been through funny convos/ inside jokes/ youtubes/ etc
Needs the attention, is scared to make the first moves all the time
Still seems excited about prospect of being together/ wants it to work/ spend time together sober for long periods of time/ makes an effort to see each other sporadically
Has been interested in me through it all
Chill!!
Focused on school
SOOO attractive
Share a sense of style and taste in music - bring out each other's ghetto side
Needs to come out of shell a bit with friends, etc
Doesn't really know how to compliment me
Youngest of 3 boys
Strong family dynamic - seems like it would be awesome to be part of
Well-off and well-educated family but cut off support after graduation
Can't always tell who his friends are anymore
Feel special because he keeps in touch
Number centered like me - countdowns
Good memory
Prefers calls
Loves sports & plays basketball
My sister and friends click with him pretty well
A bit aggressive - prefers to dare me than ask me or show me attention
Still has much to accomplish before feels he can settle down
A bit selfish in his travels
What a good courtship story
Sean
Communicative by nature and by strength
Former Israeli soldier
Passion for Israel
Not raised with passion for Judaism that now fosters
Doesn't believe in God
Mood swings - hot and cold
Can't tell what he thinks because always changing, multidimensional in his thinking
Praises me but then disappears
Whirlwind roller coaster for short period of time knowing each other
OCD about being clean
Job focused
My traditional "type"
Older/ already completed school
Still unsure what want to do with life
Experienced in relationships
But continuously falls out of love
Not ready to reallllly be dating right now & and shouldn't be because needs time to be single
Likes to text
Shaky family dynamic - lots of hurt/ instability there
Close with father
Oldest of an adopted sister, much younger
Comes from a well-off, well-educated family
Outdoorsy and antsy
Hates the beach/ sand
Hates sports
Similar values on raising a family
Brings out a domestic and affectionate side in me
Health conscious and into foodie things
Says he wants to do nice things for me and treat me well
Unsure if his words and actions line up
A bit selfish in his travels
I used to imagine a fun future
But whatever.
Dan
Numbers/ business/ finance-centered
Fraternity boy
Raised with orthodox rituals
Cohen
Hard to get him to open up
Inexperienced in having a girlfriend
Special that he shows an emotional side to me
Friends for 6.5 years, very slowww and steady progression
Been through funny convos/ inside jokes/ youtubes/ etc
Needs the attention, is scared to make the first moves all the time
Still seems excited about prospect of being together/ wants it to work/ spend time together sober for long periods of time/ makes an effort to see each other sporadically
Has been interested in me through it all
Chill!!
Focused on school
SOOO attractive
Share a sense of style and taste in music - bring out each other's ghetto side
Needs to come out of shell a bit with friends, etc
Doesn't really know how to compliment me
Youngest of 3 boys
Strong family dynamic - seems like it would be awesome to be part of
Well-off and well-educated family but cut off support after graduation
Can't always tell who his friends are anymore
Feel special because he keeps in touch
Number centered like me - countdowns
Good memory
Prefers calls
Loves sports & plays basketball
My sister and friends click with him pretty well
A bit aggressive - prefers to dare me than ask me or show me attention
Still has much to accomplish before feels he can settle down
A bit selfish in his travels
What a good courtship story
Sean
Communicative by nature and by strength
Former Israeli soldier
Passion for Israel
Not raised with passion for Judaism that now fosters
Doesn't believe in God
Mood swings - hot and cold
Can't tell what he thinks because always changing, multidimensional in his thinking
Praises me but then disappears
Whirlwind roller coaster for short period of time knowing each other
OCD about being clean
Job focused
My traditional "type"
Older/ already completed school
Still unsure what want to do with life
Experienced in relationships
But continuously falls out of love
Not ready to reallllly be dating right now & and shouldn't be because needs time to be single
Likes to text
Shaky family dynamic - lots of hurt/ instability there
Close with father
Oldest of an adopted sister, much younger
Comes from a well-off, well-educated family
Outdoorsy and antsy
Hates the beach/ sand
Hates sports
Similar values on raising a family
Brings out a domestic and affectionate side in me
Health conscious and into foodie things
Says he wants to do nice things for me and treat me well
Unsure if his words and actions line up
A bit selfish in his travels
I used to imagine a fun future