Hair and Dead People

[meiloslyther]

Okay, so this is really, really silly, but I keep thinking about cutting my hair. I remember how much I loved my hair being just long enough to run your fingers through it, at the point where you could mess it up, but if you just shook your head a bit, it would fix itself. It pisses me off to have to wash all this hair, and comb it and brush it,

Comments

[aholelabledlove]

Cutting your hair isn't giving up Nate, it won't matter what you do, he'll always be in your heart. Deep down in your heart, you'd know he'd want what ever makes you happy. If cutting your hair would make you happy, do it. If you're happier with long hair, keep it long. You can't stop living your life just because you lost a part of it. He would want you to keep going on without him, going on doesn't mean you have to forget.

(I'm sorry if that sounded in any way insensitive, I know how you feel, which why I know it hurts to keep going thinking you might loose that memory.)

[meiloslyther]

No, no, what you said... just sounded a lot like something he would have said. Hmm.

[aholelabledlove]

Well then, here's a sign if you've been waiting for one.

[slashxmistress]

Just because you told him you would grow it out- did you tell him you would keep it forever? I'm guessing no- You did it- now you can let it go <3

[meiloslyther]

Makes it seem like when I actually do cut my hair, it should be some monumental moment. At least for me.

Maybe it will help me get over this, as much as I say that I'm already over it.

[coldmero]

I think Nate would want whatever you want. I obviously never knew him, but I'm sure he'd rather you cut your hair and be happy with it than to grow it out and be bothered. It all boils down to what you want to do though, bb.

[meiloslyther]

Guh, it seems like you guys know him better than I do! I keep reading all these comments and hearing his voice saying, "Stop being a dumbass."

[aerogroupie]

Psh just wait till your hair is 28 in and totes wants to become involved in whatever you do! *eyeroll* Annoyinggggg But I dont wanna cut it, either ;_;

I don't think your friend will mind you cutting your hair, though. You did do it, and I feel as if that was respectful enough to your promise. :D

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PS: You better comment on Trishas birthday spam or I'll come after you with those scissors

[meiloslyther]

Oh trust me, I've had my hair down to my ass before. (Although, I was very tiny back then, so it was probably only a foot long anyway.)

Yeah, I think he would have been happy just to see it this long. <3

[camatie]

The first thing I thought of when reading this is "cut your hair, but keep it in a ponytail holder" and before you think I'm fucking weird, I have them from when I was little and even from the last time I cut like 5 inches off of my hair.

I have no idea if that will help you at all, but I hope it does somehow. ♥

[meiloslyther]

My hair is barely long enough to put in a ponytail in the first place. So yeah, that wouldn't work.

But, I think I've come up with a nice compromising hairstyle that I've kind of wanted for a long time now anyway. :D

[camatie]

Aww, lame. :(

BUT YAY! I'm glad you found a hairstyle that you want! \o/