... you can have a better life, now. open your eyes...
i don't know what jared's trying to accomplish. i only wish i did. i honestly feel like he's trying to guilt me back to him. i know that if he does, it's not going to work out. he'll be happy, but i won't. i still love jared, but i just don't love him as much as i used to. somewhere along the lines, i fell out of love with him. after all, i just
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Staying away from each other for weeks, if not months is really the only way you can turely begin to heal. Each person is diffrent, so spending say a month away from talking to him might do it or maybe longer. However, I'd recomend you burry yourself in a new project or goal, that way you'll be 'too busy' to even think about your ex. My project was my comic "One Shot". I worked on it non-stop for little over a month and a half for the Anime Expo, and I tell you what; when I came back from the Anime Expo I felt better than I had in a long time.
Chris and I no longer talk to each other, but it's not because of lack of trying, more like lack of caring. Chris is a very selfish individual and rather than go out and do something for himself, he'd rather rot at home and be a worthless bum that plays FF online ALL day and ALL night. Deffinately not someone I'd want to call my boyfriend.
I don't know all the details that led to the end of you and Nitro's relationship, so I can't really say anything at this point other than the fact you two need time appart from each other. And to stay away from each other during that time no matter what.
Long distance relationships work (mine obviously did), yes, but they'll only work if both partners are will to put forth effort, time, and money into making it work. Time appart makes the heart grow founder, yes, but too much time appart can also harm it.
I'm hoping things will begin to pan out for you and your 'good luck cycle' begins very soon!
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